"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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club alone?

BLAiZE

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Hi guys im BLAiZE
i am very new here in fact this is my 2nd post
so please bear with me if i did make any mistakes lol

so last night i was itching to go to a club to boost my game and test out openers
but i just recently transfered to a new apt and my friends were all busy so i had no one to go with. although through a neighbor i managed to go with a guy not really a PUA just so i won't look like a freak being all by myself anyway at any rate it was a faliure

i opened a 2 set and this HB 7 sorta chubby was like looking at me as if like ow i know you like me and like she wasn;t responding to my jokes and stuf my wing wasn't doing anything either to top it all off i was still pretty new

so i just got a question for you guys do you recommend going to a club on my own
if so could you guys give any pointers or important key points to remember.

ow and sorry for asking but is there like a neg or opener database thats like collected in a thread that i could use. a whole lot of thanks

=BLAiZE
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The key for me is to find a group (preferably a larger mixed set), and have them become my "home base". I like to make sure they're a set that's having lots of fun, and looks like they'll be staying around for a while, though I'll usually move on with the group if they're going to another club. Open the set and make friends, but don't really take things further with anybody. You might even find yourself a guy who'll make a good insta-wing, but just have fun with the group, get to know everybody.

I like to get the girls and guys in the group involved in my game, scouting for the attractive girls in the club -- I'll tell them that I'm learning to pick up women, ask what's worked for them in the past (and what hasn't), and even teach them a few things from The Game. Just have fun with it.

Then, go open the sets you're interested in. Report your success to your new best friends, have a laugh, keep the entertainment going, and try again. It can be a lot of fun if you find a good group to attach to, and if the group you find doesn't work at first, go find another one.
 
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