"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Clothing store women, she just selling clothes or selling both ?

-DJ-CAGE-

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Do the women in clothing stores realy just approach you to help you out and buy clothes ?

Or maybe they interested so they have legit reason to come up to you ?

Probably the reason i never realy try chat up women in clothing stores because i know their usualy working angle to sell you something.

What you guys think ?
It's realy hard to tell difference because its their job, do they get more money if they sell more or what ?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by -DJ-CAGE-
Do the women in clothing stores realy just approach you to help you out and buy clothes ?
Yes, otherwise they wouldn't make any money. But that doesn't men you can't game them!
 

diablo

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Rabbit, which HCo are you working at? (Mall, City, State)

The odds are good that the women are approaching you due to their being given a percentage of whatever sales they make. However, there is a possibility that they are in fact attracted to you - and are coming to you based on this alone. Regardless, you should use this time as a gateway to build your DJ skills. After all - it's a win-win situation. If they are getting paid to be nice, then you can stumble and still remain confident. If they are actually interested in you, then unless you mangle your approach horribly, you're still in the game.
 
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