"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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oscarxp25

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Hey guys...I wanted to know places where I can go to improve my style. My style now is kind of classy hip/hop...if that is clear..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Go to your female friends. Nobody does it better.
 

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oscarxp25 said:
Hey guys...I wanted to know places where I can go to improve my style. My style now is kind of classy hip/hop...if that is clear..
Ummm I only wear Express, guess jeans/sweaters, Calvin Klein dress shirts/shoes, Nikes, foot locker t's (v-cut white or black) ralph lauren rugby sweaters/polos from time to time. Alex Cannon button ups. I get lots of compliments and turn heads when I go out. The trick is finding stuff that fits your body type/shape and compliments you well, nothing real crazy with colors/designs, subtle, cool and has you looking clean/fresh. Yet I have some cheaper brand stuff, just got to look and go by feel "damn this makes me look and feel like a million bucks" wear it!!...
 

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if you wanna improve wear what the coolest rappers wear

if you want to change? then start a new thread ahhaha
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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nmartinez12443

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my personal style

I will start with my personal style:

shoes: cowboy boots: I like these because they look great with jeans, are durable, give you 1 inch and 1/2 of height, and are just sweet. I personally have crocodile leather cowboy boots, got them on ebay for 120, don't buy in stores you will get ripped off. I get nothing but compliments and they are worth the money.

jeans: I either go with buckle or express for jeans.

shirts: best place I have seen for shirts is buckle.

Be prepared to spend money, sure jc penny and kohls has nice things, but buckle/macys shirts are a cut above.
 
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I personally like the Gap, lots of clothing goodness to be had there.

Generally: Nice, subtle-wash, fitted jeans. Casual shirts, polo shirts, and tee shirts, chino shorts that fall just above the knee (Navy blue, khaki colors are nice), flip flops, or sneakers. I like the Adidas Stan Smiths in white.

Remember, with the shirts, keep the design subtle and classy. Look at Jcrew's mens section for ideas, no flashy graphic tees, unless they are exceptionally funny.

You'll be okay :up: The most important part is that no matter what you wear, you've gotta be confident about it. So either learn to be comfortable with stuff that you don't like, or start wearing stuff that you do like all the time. (You can look good in gym shorts and tee shirts if you want, it doesn't have to be necessarily dressy, just nice)

I'm trying to give you universal advice here, this is what works for me, but I don't think I could wear anything from buckle or pac sun or hollister, it makes me look like a high school sophomore. Again, different strokes, different folks, so try it all, but use this guide to get started and see what works out for you.
 

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Depends on where you live. Uniqlo and H&M offer good quality clothing and it's cheap. For just everyday streetwear, get a pair of fitted jeans or pants, some basic crew neck or v-neck t-shirts, a nice button-down shirt, a pair of chucks and a sweater or a cardigan. APC makes really nice jeans. Please, don't get anything like Ed Hardy or with all those sequins and flashy designs that make you look like a total douche. styleforum has some good looks and lots of high quality brands and online stores to check out.
 

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Best clothing is the best way to improve your style.
Attractive and branded clothes gives nice look to your personality
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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