"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Clothes...need....new clothes..

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I have about $500-1000 to spend on new clothes.

i live near seattle in one of the outerlying towns, and i'm 18 years old...going for girls younger than me (possibly older, up to 20 years old)

I do train martial arts and i have about 2 years underneath my belt now, so thats as "athletic" as I am...i dont play sports.

Gonna be in community college but I will also be hanging out with a lot of my friends that are still seniors in high school.

Haven't kissed a girl for over 5 years, need to get some good clothes...possible ears pierced...

Go ahead and give me some good options for clothes :)

((EDIT: I need clothes anyway, so i might as well get the ones that are "stylish" and "unique"...either way i need to get clothes so an opinion wouldnt hurt...i know that clothes aren't everything))
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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