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Ive heard it and saw it myself girls likes it when a guy have matched colors of his clothes....specially shoes,belts,shirts.
the question is what colors go with what....assuming im wearing jeans all time.....thanks playas.....
 

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ok im talking about matching shoes with belt with tops...what colors go with what colors
 

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Umm again ask your mom or you can go to www.teenspot.com and on the boards there is a fashion forum which is very wise. I ofcourse ask family members about what they think but after years of training I am a fashionata. lol
 

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Its impossible to answer youre question. You have to be way more specific:

If you are wearing traditional bluejeans with a relaxed fit and a straight leg medium color blue with no wash/fade you have tons of options. Sneakers with the colors white, black, blue, red, green, yellow, or orange will match. Also, black or brown boots or shoes (that are not too shiny) with a matching, SILVER tone belt (NOT! gold tone) will also math.

If you are wearing slim fit low rise boot cut deep-blue jeans with a rust(deep red or yellow) color washed into it then youre options are far more limited. First of all, you probably wouldnt want to wear sneakers with pants cut that way. So you are limited to shoes. Because jeans like this are more "dressy" you can get away with shinyer shoes or boots. Make sure the shoes have a flatter, boxier toe, so that they fill the wide opening at the bottom of hte pants. The belt, again, should match the shoes color/finish and can have either a silver or golden buckle.

Basically, when you are dressing youreself you have to think of where you are going, and how dressy you want to be. As a DJ especially, it is best to plan on being the second dressiest person in any room you walk in. Pick a pair of pants for the occation. The more "fitted" the pants, the more fitted youre shirt should be. Look at the colors in youre pants/shirt. IF they are "earthy" colors then wear shoes of earthy (deep brown) leather. IF the colors are BOLD then wear shoes of black leather. Finally, pick out what jewelry you will be wearing (watch, chain, rings) and make sure they all are of the same metal, with the same finish, and pick a belt of the same color as youre shoes with the same style buckle as youre jewelry.
 

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