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Clothes and Dress sense - Name brand clothes or kmart/no name brand clothes?

HOT_CHILLI

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As your choice of threads is a part of your body langauge, it can account for a large part of initial attraction and attractiveness in general. if you dont have good style, you may be seen as uncool, dorkish.
Ive heard from a few people that chicks really dig name brand clothes and clothing items. i would have thought if it looks fine that should be sufficient, regardless of brand name.

What's your opinion?
 

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Chicks dig style. LA chicks dig brands.

But what really matters, more than ANYTHING - is how you carry yourself in the clothes.
 

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From what I've seen, people associate brand names with style. What I mean is that people see your name brand clothes and even if you put together a sh*tty looking outfit they'll still think you're stylish LOL.

That being said I don't buy into the name brand hype. The bulk, 99%, of the time "name brand" clothes are of no better quality than affordable department store clothes. The only thing that makes them "better" is an inflated price tag, a logo, and maybe a sew-on emblem. Oftentimes I loathe name brand clothes as they're often over done with logos, making the wearer look like a walking billboard.

However, I do own several name brand clothes. I think the reason people prefer them is they are often on the edge of what becomes popular in an area. Name brand stores tend to get the new styles first and then department stores stock similar items a few months down the road. It comes off a little bit "poser" and oftentimes when a department store starts to stock a new style it's already fading out and being replaced by the next biggest thing.

All in all, buy what you like and what looks good on you. Unless people check the tags on your shirts they'll never know how much you paid for it (assuming it looks good on you). Don't fall into the old 'wear our clothes or be unlovable forever' bs that marketers push on the public.

As long as it looks good on you no one will know, or care, what brand it is or what it cost.

How old are you/ the chicks you go after? It has a huge bearing on the answer you seek
 

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BlakeW5 said:
From what I've seen, people associate brand names with style. What I mean is that people see your name brand clothes and even if you put together a sh*tty looking outfit they'll still think you're stylish LOL.

That being said I don't buy into the name brand hype. The bulk, 99%, of the time "name brand" clothes are of no better quality than affordable department store clothes. The only thing that makes them "better" is an inflated price tag, a logo, and maybe a sew-on emblem. Oftentimes I loathe name brand clothes as they're often over done with logos, making the wearer look like a walking billboard.

However, I do own several name brand clothes. I think the reason people prefer them is they are often on the edge of what becomes popular in an area. Name brand stores tend to get the new styles first and then department stores stock similar items a few months down the road. It comes off a little bit "poser" and oftentimes when a department store starts to stock a new style it's already fading out and being replaced by the next biggest thing.

All in all, buy what you like and what looks good on you. Unless people check the tags on your shirts they'll never know how much you paid for it (assuming it looks good on you). Don't fall into the old 'wear our clothes or be unlovable forever' bs that marketers push on the public.

As long as it looks good on you no one will know, or care, what brand it is or what it cost.

How old are you/ the chicks you go after? It has a huge bearing on the answer you seek
Well im 17 and in high school. i go after chicks around 16,17,18 and 19.
 

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chicks arn't dumb they can tell

although it may look similar branded stuff you can just tell even if the mimics are close its jsut that better fit and quality
 

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Pick out a female friend and invite her to come help you get some new clothes. They make finding the right clothes ten times easier. I'd pick out a nice shirt and she would say "Oh, that's a good one, but check this one out! It's the same design in a different color so you can wear it with a lot more types of pants!" Sure enough, she was right.

If you don't have any female friends or you can't get any to some along with you, go to the mall and recruit one. I had one of my friends flake on me for shoe shopping, so I used this as a chance to practice approaching, etc. We found a slick pair of shoes, I got some practice, and now girls go "Oooooooh I LOVE your new shoes!". You can't lose.
 

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you know what?
it really isn't about showing up somewhere in the latest fashion with the latest label on your clothes.
as long as you wear clothes that are clean, without stains and holes, that fit you properly, that look nice on your body, nothing else matters.
 

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I dress both ways, depending on how I'm feeling that night. I have a bunch of cheap jeans/shorts/t-shirts I wear some nights and a handful of nicer shirts and pants I wear on other nights. Depends on how I'm feeling.

For me, I always seem to do much better with women when I'm wearing the cheap ****. Not sure why that is. I think it just suits me better, I feel more comfortable and at home in it. Lately I've been doing this more and more. I feel like it encourages that "I don't give a fvck" attitude that can bring so much to your game.

I think you just have to figure out what look works for YOU and go with it. If it suits you, do it, if it doesn't, move on to something else.
 

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Looks don't matter - clothes don't matter - lofl

You can spend a lot of money on clothes that suck and are seasons/years ago trend following trash.

Buy less, buy killer sh1t - be selective.
 

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Be sensible. I wear a nice watch and nice shoes, I spend money on those. I look hard for deals on pants and shirts. I try to spend money on nice coats. So look for good deals and mix up where you spend the most money. Every single item you have on doesn't have to be designer/name brand just the ones that stand out.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm completley obssesed with clothes, and girls can tell. Personally, i'm an Abercrombie and Fitch *****. I get comments on how good I look all the time
 
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