"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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hey, I messed up bumping into this girl after an exam, I was going to get her number then, somehow I messed up my timing.


I decided to email her since I didnt see her around the rest of the day and its the end of the semester already

what do you think?

Tried to catch you after the exam this morning but I ran into my advisor.
Call me about dinner plans tomorrow night. Do you like seafood?

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Why avoid her? Why not ask her outright?
 
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cause im not going to see her, she was in my class, but today was the exam, so we arent gonna be in class together anymore.

If i was going to see her, I'd ask her then. I was gonna ask her today after the exam but she took forever
 
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you did fine -short and direct is how it should be. Although going for dinner was a little bit much, it makes alarms go off in her head. "uh-oh, dinner. this guy I'm not even (yet) attracted to wants to take me on a DATE." Better to mask your intentions behind 'hangin out' until you've actually got her hot for you.
 
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