Closing the deal on the road

[BlueAlpha1]

I was at a store today upgrading my brothers phone and started spitting game at the Hb7 cashier who ate it up for 45 minutes. Loud laughing, very heavy eye contact, responding to cues, etc. She loved my stories of travel and expressed a desire to do similar -- theres your emotional connection.

Come to find out shes married with kids, and she trashed her hubby more than once as a a former ho, now househusband. 2/3 kids arent his. Typical beta ass ***** and clearly shes now a prime candidate for a ONS.

On the way out she asks for MY number and gives me her # and email at my command. Then she touches my arm. My brother even gave me props on the way out for a near hour of impeccable game.

I texted quickly because I live in FL but am in NY for only 4 more days. She responded within a minute each time but the games have begun, talking about busy schedules. We came ro sunday at 7 after she leaves work and she goes with "Ill let you know, text me Sunday." I reply with "lol funny girl, you text me sunday" followed by "OK..got u."

Sounds like an automatic flake with that ending, but now I wont be texting to confirm which at least neutralizes the rush she'd get from a flake to an extent. My brother sees the slight incongruency and explains it away that I texted too fast and was "too available", but since Im not interested in a pen pal I have to strike by Monday.

Do you guys believe in striking while the iron is hot like with the insta-date or same day text?

Thoughts on how to proceed...

 

[El Payaso]

If you're only going to be there till Monday, then you have nothing to lose if she flakes so just hit her up on the day if you want or not. It doesn't really matter.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Strike while the iron is hot. You have nothing to lose as you will never see this chick again. Find some free time and invite her over for drinks. Don't even think about it twice. If she is down then she is down. If not then screw it.

 

[Skyline]

I hope you know that the people who work at phone stores are Salespeople on a Commision based salary. More than likely this could just be a hook to get you back in the store so you, or another friend, will go to her and she makes a sale.

There's nothing wrong with using sales techniques like that, in fact it's really smart, but I personally think you've took the bait. If she can contact you outside the store it's really only a matter of time before you come back. Why do you think places like Hooters hire hot waitresses? So you come back!

I mean, she has kids and sleeps around with a HUSBAND. AND she's in commission based sales? Pretty sure she knows what she's doing.

 

[BlueAlpha1]

I hope you know that the people who work at phone stores are Salespeople on a Commision based salary. More than likely this could just be a hook to get you back in the store so you, or another friend, will go to her and she makes a sale.

There's nothing wrong with using sales techniques like that, in fact it's really smart, but I personally think you've took the bait. If she can contact you outside the store it's really only a matter of time before you come back. Why do you think places like Hooters hire hot waitresses? So you come back!

I mean, she has kids and sleeps around with a HUSBAND. AND she's in commission based sales? Pretty sure she knows what she's doing.

Well aware of the differences as I worked in the wireless sales industry for 3 years and know when a girl is trying to sell you something vs when she's distracted from her job. I'll usually make a joke to for instance a stripper or a hot massage therapist who happens to be a bad actor. Pretty confident that's not what this was as my brother noted she was barely paying attention to the sale (which was with him) as she was locking eyes with me most of the time.

As I also stated I live in FL and am just visiting, and also made it clear I was not there to upgrade for myself. There was genuine chemistry and it ended this way.

Her: Whats your number
Me: I told you I'm not upgrading today
Her: No, for our future travels.

 

[beforeimgone]

I was at a store today upgrading my brothers phone and started spitting game at the Hb7 cashier who ate it up for 45 minutes. Loud laughing, very heavy eye contact, responding to cues, etc. She loved my stories of travel and expressed a desire to do similar -- theres your emotional connection.

Come to find out shes married with kids, and she trashed her hubby more than once as a a former ho, now househusband. 2/3 kids arent his. Typical beta ass ***** and clearly shes now a prime candidate for a ONS.

On the way out she asks for MY number and gives me her # and email at my command. Then she touches my arm. My brother even gave me props on the way out for a near hour of impeccable game.

I texted quickly because I live in FL but am in NY for only 4 more days. She responded within a minute each time but the games have begun, talking about busy schedules. We came ro sunday at 7 after she leaves work and she goes with "Ill let you know, text me Sunday." I reply with "lol funny girl, you text me sunday" followed by "OK..got u."

Sounds like an automatic flake with that ending, but now I wont be texting to confirm which at least neutralizes the rush she'd get from a flake to an extent. My brother sees the slight incongruency and explains it away that I texted too fast and was "too available", but since Im not interested in a pen pal I have to strike by Monday.

Do you guys believe in striking while the iron is hot like with the insta-date or same day text?

Thoughts on how to proceed...

Sounds like you ran impeccable verbal game, friend, but I hardly read anything of you touching her or her touching you.


Only problem I noticed: There was no physical escalation. It's impossible to tell if a woman is interested unless you test the limits of how much she is willing to let you get her into. I believe you could've possibly gotten her to kiss at the very least.


How to proceed? escalate until she rejects you. let her regain composure. Escalate again. (repeat process with no emotional attachment and she will either fvck you or leave you)

 

[BlueAlpha1]

Sounds like you ran impeccable verbal game, friend, but I hardly read anything of you touching her or her touching you.


Only problem I noticed: There was no physical escalation. It's impossible to tell if a woman is interested unless you test the limits of how much she is willing to let you get her into. I believe you could've possibly gotten her to kiss at the very least.


How to proceed? escalate until she rejects you. let her regain composure. Escalate again. (repeat process with no emotional attachment and she will either fvck you or leave you)

Kiss her while shes at work behind a counter? Lol come on man..

 

[beforeimgone]

Kiss her while shes at work behind a counter? Lol come on man..

It sounds ridiculous, i'm sure, but how could you ever know if you never push the boundaries that you believe to be the limit of what's possible?