Closing Game???

[Confident1]

Ok, my friend managed to put in words something that I have been struggling to say, both here and in person, for a long time.

He said: "You have great game. You can reel pretty much any girl in, but you can never seal the deal. You just don't have any closing game."

You know what, he's right. All the stuff I learned from all the sources have always taught me how to get girls, but I can't seal the deal....I REALLY REALLY REALLY need some help/advice with this. When to kiss a girl? How to know? What is moving too fast?

I'm from New Orleans, I lived a fast teen age life, I never really had to do the whole dating thing. Now I'm at college and I realize I just can't get drunk and hook up with whoever...WHAT DO I DO?

I leave my fate in you guys' hands, thanks for any help you can give me. (Melodramatic? A little, yes I know.)

 

[Sean O]

Well, for number closes, it's best to leave on a high note, i.e. in the middle of a part of the conversation that she's really enjoying. As for kissing... it depends a lot on the girl and the situation you're in. All I can really say is that with time and practice, you'll develop a gut feeling for it. It'll be like the words "Kiss her, damnit!" will flash across your mind for an instant, and that's when you know when to do it. Sorry if that's a little vague, but that's the best way I can describe it to you.

 

[WC2]

Closing game?

Do you mean kissing her or laying her?

Everyone has their own theories, but the only one that holds 100% true is that you'll never know until you try it. Take risks. Most of the girls I've slept with have been outright gambles. As long as she's sending signals and you're confident about yourself, sealing the deal is a cakewalk.