"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"closing" first date

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Hi
As a newbie i only started digging thru few gurus stuff and this forum trying to create my style.

Im not good at reading IOIs and dont wanna waste time chasing lost causes, prefer switching to new targets.

Sure, she accepted my first date, but i want to continue only if shes more interested than before, dont want to become friend but i wont be ready for kiss test or much KINO(surely not for few first dates).
I have an idea and could use some opinion/pointers.

What about saying at the end : "if U want to repeat this give me a call, if not then thx & goodbye"
What about pointing to my cheek with "kiss" before saying it? (or is it too STYLE'a)

thx in advance :)
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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my question is - does telling her (after walking her home) "if U want to repeat this give me a call, if not then thx & goodbye" will be a good idea - i dont want to be too aggressive, just sending ball onto her side of court

btw.i try to do date rather casual, not much KINO except for a shoulder(not much player style, but im not there yet)
 
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JJcha said:
my question is - does telling her (after walking her home) "if U want to repeat this give me a call, if not then thx & goodbye" will be a good idea - i dont want to be too aggressive, just sending ball onto her side of court

btw.i try to do date rather casual, not much KINO except for a shoulder(not much player style, but im not there yet)
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FAIL. DO NOT TELL HER THAT CRAP. PERIOD. :mad: :mad: :mad:

Kiss her, say talk to you later, leave. Call her a few days later (call, don't text for ****s sake), ask her out again. Done.

Edit: And do kino. Otherwise you'll most likely end up in the friend's zone. Just saying.
 
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