"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Closing checking accounts, is it instant?

Booblepook

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Hey, I had this Wamu checking account, and I decided to transfer money out of it into another account and close it..

I did this over the phone, and guy told me it would take 3 to 4 business days to close this account, because they can not close it over the phone, he had to forward form to backoffice..

My question is, and this is urgent. Does it take that long to close an account or should it be instant?


I wonder if I go there tomorrow will they close it instantely?

My concern is if it gets charged during this 3 to 4 business days, I could be in negative and have to pay a fee?


I had eBay suspend my account and it looks greem for now, so if they don't want me, I don't want them, screw eBay..


By the way, opening new account was extra easy, online.. Like 2 minutes. Also opened a savings account.. Super easy!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wiesman44

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worked at a bank. If you go there, and there's no pending transactions during the day your trying to close it, it will take 1 business day to close.

So if you went to go close it Wednesday, it would be official on Thursday
 

Booblepook

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Alright, I went to a brach and finally closed my account..


Now, I did open a new account yesterday, a checking and savings.. I called bank to transfer money from this new checking to savings, and they told me can't do it at the moment, because checking account is on hold..

Apperantely because it is new and hold will be lifted in a couple of days..


My question is, does this sound right?
 
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yeah, that's entirely possible. the bank's not going to LIE to you about something like this.

every bank operates differently. I work part-time at a bank and you can do transfers from an account the day it's opened. however, if you make a transfer or deposit into any account, it won't show up until the next business day. at WaMu, deposits and transfers show up instantly. anyway, like I said. if they say that they can't do the transfer because the checking account is on "hold" or whatever they call it, it's quite possibly the case. try do go around it. maybe do a withdrawal, then turn right back around and deposit it into the savings. maybe write a check off of the checking and deposit it into the savings.
 

Wiesman44

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Booblepook said:
Alright, I went to a brach and finally closed my account..


Now, I did open a new account yesterday, a checking and savings.. I called bank to transfer money from this new checking to savings, and they told me can't do it at the moment, because checking account is on hold..

Apperantely because it is new and hold will be lifted in a couple of days..


My question is, does this sound right?
Yep. 7 day hold is usually placed. They're just protecting against fraud.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Booblepook

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Ahh, well then I have to wait 7 days to transfer money to my savings account.


Now, I have this check for 32 bucks from two years ago from my ex employer.. I got pissed off since they charged me 300 or so bucks for a dropped printer, 32 is all I got.. I never deposited it, but still have the check.. If I deposit it now, will it go through?
 
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