"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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# closed Spanish HB 10

ChrizZ

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Hi fellas!

I knew her from before, but I hadn't seen her in over a month.

I was sitting in front of the library and she walked by and gave me a hug.

we started with small talk and then I was like: "You are pretty cute."

HB: "Oh, thank you *flattered gesture*"

Me: "I wanna take you out sometime. What's your number?"

HB: "Oh, you want my number? Sure... blablabla"

Me: "You don't have a bf do you?"

HB: "*hesitates* Ehmm, no. Not really..."

Me: "I'm sorry, but what's your name again?"

HB: "HB, what's yours?"

Me: "ChrizZ"

after that she has to go to class and looks back at me and yells: "ChrizZ, I will never forget that name again!!!"

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I will keep you guys updated on this. I'm not gonna focus exclusively on that girl though cuz I'm spinning 3 other plates right now.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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amoka

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Did she give your her number after her class or somewhere during the conversation. Remember to not ask a girl whether she has a boyfriend or not. Allow her to tell you. Most girls will response "yes" even if they don't have none. Know that most of them are afraid of being labeled "boyfriendless." Otherwise, good job; keep us update.
 

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ChrizZ said:
after that she has to go to class and looks back at me and yells: "ChrizZ, I will never forget that name again!!!"
an HB10 yelling that? I'm not saying it's impossible but man...=p
 

ChrizZ

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amoka said:
Did she give your her number after her class or somewhere during the conversation. Remember to not ask a girl whether she has a boyfriend or not. Allow her to tell you. Most girls will response "yes" even if they don't have none. Know that most of them are afraid of being labeled "boyfriendless." Otherwise, good job; keep us update.
She gave me the number during the conversation. I just asked her if she has a bf because I hate wasting time on a chick that is not interested.
 

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vagrant said:
an HB10 yelling that? I'm not saying it's impossible but man...=p
Hey, I'm slowly becoming prince charming :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ChrizZ said:
Hey, I'm slowly becoming prince charming :)
well then I guess it's safe to say that it's a close deal!~
 

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ChrizZ said:
She gave me the number during the conversation. I just asked her if she has a bf because I hate wasting time on a chick that is not interested.
No. You like spending time with those that you like spending time with. And if those that you like spending time with also feel they'd enjoy spending time with you, nothing prevents them from doing so. On the other hand, if those that you'd like to spend some time with are not interested in spending time with you, they give you all sorts of excuses to avoid spending time together.
 
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