Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Close this set, I couldn't.

jobluek

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This even sounds lame to me, but I was hungry on the way home from work so stopped at a different grocery store than I normally go to, and it was so weird--there were hot girls everywhere! It was strange; it was a part of town that has a lot of single yuppies but they usually are on the side closer to 30 than 20...whereas I live in an area that is a little younger.

Anyway, I was in line at the checkout counter and this hottie gets in line behind me. I actually did a double take she was that hot. I don't remember the exact conversation but it kinda went like this:

me: [after my double take, I hand her the divider for the grocery belt] I didn't even see you had any groceries...here (all she had was a liter of coke and a small snack)
her: Thanks
me: (I see her eyeing the magazine rack) Heh, and I thought I was the only one who came here just for the National Enquirer.
her: [laughs] Yeah, me too.
me: I don't know what I'd do if I went a day without knowing what Brad and Angelina are up to.
her: [laughs] I think I missed a couple days
me: Last I heard, they adopted a couple dozen kids, bought an island, and are raising an army.
her: [laughs] Really...for what?
me: That's the hook, they keep you wanting to come back for more!
her: [laughs and playfully hits me on arm] Yeah ok, whatever.

There may have been more to the conversation, but that's pretty much when the cashier got to my stuff and checked me out. We smiled at each other and said our byes and that was it.

Personally I think I did well for what I was working with. How weird/creepy would it have been to try and snag her number? Any thoughts/ideas?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The conversation was good.

You should have just asked if you where so curious. The only thing to fear is fear itself, seriously. "I'm in a hurry, but I want to call you, so do you have phone numbers?" Then just look at them with a blank look until they say something.
 

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What does it matter? You'll never see her again! Next time go for it man! Nothing ventured nothing gained.
 
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