"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wtf dude. First off, that's a great way to get your ass kicked and secondly, stealing girlfriends in general is fvcking low.

I'm not even gonna answer this question. Seriously dude, I'm not sure you're here for the right reasons. This is a place to better yourself, I think you're kind of going the opposite way on this one.
 
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O M F G are you serious about this.

There are billions of attractive women on this planet and you're telling me you cannot find one without a bf. Girls with bf's are off limits for me. This has nothing to do with the girl, it's about respect and common courtesy among men. We may be at war for resources with each other but that doesn't mean we can't be honorable about it.

It doesn't matter if you're better than her current bf, it's his turn with her so show some damn respect and just wait patiently for him to screw it up and then make a move. Ask yourself how you would feel if a guy started hitting on your gf/wife right in front of you.

This sounds like it's pure ego motivated and nothing more. I suggest you kill your ego because with a mentality like this someone is gonna do it for you sooner or later.

I could understand if you really liked this girl and wanted to try your luck. But get real. Asking someone out when their bf is right there is extremely disrespectful to both him and her and shows how little value you actually have.

Any guy thats would be dumb enough to ask my gf out right in front of me knowing that shes with me would would be told to Fudge off assuming I haven't already hit him in the nose.

Tell you what tomorrow why don't you go to the mall and find a girl with a guy (preferably much bigger than you) that is obviously her bf and start hitting on her while their holding holds or hugging and report back here and tell us how it went.

I hope this was a joke topic and you weren't serious because I hate wasting one of my posts on a troll.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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