Well, looks like Clooney's no longer with the Italian broad. I was worried about him for awhile but now I see I had nothing to stress over. Of course his situation is different than any guy's here, one still can learn good behaviors from celebs 
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Clooney unhitched
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear Jitterbug,
"Isn't it in the law in many Anglosphere countries now that 2 years of dating equal defacto relationship, which means the woman is entitled to your sh1t?"....In Australia?
"Isn't it in the law in many Anglosphere countries now that 2 years of dating equal defacto relationship, which means the woman is entitled to your sh1t?"....In Australia?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You should still be doing that, especially if you want your marriage to be successful.L B said:
And on this Clooney stuff, it's really the broad's fault. I understand that she mentioned to some magazine her desire to get married or something like that.
Tsk, tsk, tsk. :nono:
scrouds
Master Don Juan
Women are programmed in to exact committment at 2 years out, if not sooner. Best to ditch and start fresh.
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All four of those Apocalyptic horse-drawn man cows have bashed Clooney for not succumbing to their societal expectations.Wilko said:
The guy does what he wants. With who he wants. Whenever he wants.
We should all rip that page out of his book and stuff it in our pockets as a constant reminder of our available options.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
erm, no. At least not in the US. I'm not aware of one US state that enforces "palimony." http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/PalimonyJitterbug said:
I have a feeling that Clooney has lots of "orbiting" women he keeps around so that he can "vine swing" whenever one chick gets a little annoying. Not a bad idea.
Clooney Girlfriend Starts Talking Babies, Marriage, Actor Swiftly Dumps Her
http://www.the-spearhead.com/2011/0...king-babies-marriage-actor-swiftly-dumps-her/
Seriously this place is turning into the spearhead.
http://www.the-spearhead.com/2011/0...king-babies-marriage-actor-swiftly-dumps-her/
Seriously this place is turning into the spearhead.