"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Clinton or Trump?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Bible_Belt
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taiyuu_otoko
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
BlueAlpha1
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Yup.
She dedicated her whole campaign to the big lie of "equal pay", implying they don't already have it, which they do AND for a lower quality of work. So what she's arguing for is preferential treatment for women in the work force, equal pay for LESS work, and taking the incentive away from men to work hard as they continue to be cucked at work.
She also wants the freedom of "choice" for a woman to execute a fetus a week before it's born, which makes her a hideous monster. And this is coming from someone who is not necessarily against an abortion during the 1st term.
Meanwhile, she's taken millions from Saudi Arabia - a real patriarchy, a real rape culture in every sense of the word. But the Oppression Olympics places brown-skinned Muslims in a higher protected class on the hierarchy than generic women as a whole, thus the free pass. But of course, white women rank above the white man back home, thus radical feminism.
As Donald says, such a nasty woman
When we see 50% of workplace fatalities be female, then we can talk about the "gap".
12-0 Trump so far, and the media pretends it's neck and neck.
Von
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Same here... we Canadians need to make a wall to prevent USA immigrants. lol
Trump = Mega Ego, Party animal, Business driven, probably just want the publicity or set his kids a business (cause his real estate is going down), narcissistic, childish, his republican base is just.... not talkable (he shares the Sander Democrats for change but will they vote?)
Clinton=Politicians for life, woman who been cheated/betrayed/ridiculed all her life by men, feel entitled to the White House... she might be out for revenge (and an angry woman is far more dangerous than a male), her democrats base are the elite... I wouldnt be surprised if Bill Clinton dissappear the next day lol
Where ****ed both ways.... but who has the most self-preserving instinct (I believe Trump) but Clinton has the best supporters.
Anyway November 11 is remembrance day... we will all remember the free world that ended on November 8 (right after the elections)
In my opinion, Clinton will win... but might be closer than said
Lol. I agree with your assesment of the two candidates, but I'm not apposed to american immigration into Canada. I have an american cousin who is talking about doing just that.
Trump. Spoiled rich tycoon who can't handle the word no.
Clinton. Political history of destroying the lives of anyone who doesn't give her what she wants.....
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
speed dawg
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BeExcellent
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Hillary is likely to get us into an armed conflict she is fundamentally incapable of leading...
Trump is a capable leader underneath all the topical sound bites the media keeps casting about (as though those things are issues.)
Trump needs to focus less on deflecting sound bites and more on policy.
Hillary has to focus on sound bites and destruction of Trump's character because she CAN'T focus on policy - her record and her character are each a huge liability.
Bible_Belt
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Ok DB Juan. Thanks for coming across the border, buying Doritos on your EBT card and joining SS today just to remind us that you are wearing "I'm with Her" panties. As for the poll numbers showing Trump winning in a landslide here, read them and weep. Hillary is going to Prison.
Bible_Belt
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Donald Trump holds single-point lead over Hillary Clinton in new poll
And that's the poll biased towards her and in her back pocket from the gitgo through Dem oversampling, or what ever other means they could find.They can't keep up the facade and swing a false perception of reality at the public any longer… They are in CYA mode now.
Bible_Belt
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https://www.theguardian.com/comment...ails-show-who-runs-america-and-how-they-do-it
Forget the FBI cache; the Podesta emails show how America is run
...This genre of Podesta email, in which people try to arrange jobs for themselves or their kids, points us toward the most fundamental thing we know about the people at the top of this class: their loyalty to one another and the way it overrides everything else. Of course Hillary Clinton staffed her state department with investment bankers and then did speaking engagements for investment banks as soon as she was done at the state department. Of course she appears to think that any kind of bank reform should “come from the industry itself”. And of course no elite bankers were ever prosecuted by the Obama administration. Read these emails and you understand, with a start, that the people at the top tier of American life all know each other. They are all engaged in promoting one another’s careers, constantly.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.