Die Hard
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Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Clint Eastwood shows us how it's done!
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
thedude4242
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thats why it is the movies. they can do anything like that.
Julius_Seizeher
Master Don Juan
That's one of my favorite Eastwood scenes.
survivorman
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I've had women compare me to Clint more than once - I'm OK with that..
Of course, actually *doing* something like that linked clip in real life will likely land you in prison for a l-o-o-o-n-g time!
Of course, actually *doing* something like that linked clip in real life will likely land you in prison for a l-o-o-o-n-g time!
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
My favorite Clint scene with a woman was in one of the dirty harry movies. He'd just come home to his apartment building, when some hot young asian woman asked him:
Girl: "What's it take for a women to go to bed with you?"
Clint: "You could try knocking on the door." And then turned and walked away.
Girl: "What's it take for a women to go to bed with you?"
Clint: "You could try knocking on the door." And then turned and walked away.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
survivorman
Don Juan
Clint on how to handle AW's (from Coogan's Bluff);
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