"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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clingy girls

Arizona iced tea

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well geez, now that i have decent game all the girls i hook up with wont leave me alone for a minute... i dont want to be an ***hole, but im just starting my first year of college and im not looking for commitment. these girls act as if im a bad guy b/c we did something and i am not going to ask them out immediately.

how does a "DJ" go about solving this? when im in college i plan to play the field but if this is going to happen every time i meet someone new, that sucks...

thanks in advance.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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War Against Betaism

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Use the weapon that they've been slaying men with all these years..."Let's just be friends."
 

DonJoseCantosie

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^Stop stealing this person's account. U know who u are K-Man .
 

KontrollerX

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Do War Against Betaism's idea.

Try and do it in front of a group of people too so that if she flips out on you after doing your best acting performance like you genuinely want to be her friend she will look like a fvcking loon.
 

Arizona iced tea

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sounds good... this one girl i met on tuesday is saying if i dont go out with her im ****ing her over. ive known her for a little over a day now and shes calling me at night begging for an answer when i have school in the morning. gahh.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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