"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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clicking joints

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most of my joints, knees, ankles, wrists, and shoulders make a clicking sound everytime i move them, some times they get stiff and stuck in one position for a few seconds.
i went to see the doctor about this, and got a few x-rays taken, but no problems were found, and since i am 18, the doctors (i went to more than one) told me i am fine.
i did some research online and most sites seem to suggest that a clicking joint is perfectly natrual, so i didnt worry about it

recently my shoulder began to hurt when i move it, with reduced mobility--i can no longer touch my fingertips behind my back, among others, i have had no previous injuries to the joints, and hadn't done any stressful acitivities.

any ideas?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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picard

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X rays do reveal loss of synovial fluid between your joints. Did you do any vigrous sport activities like football which might have dislocated your joints? I think other tests such as NMR would reveal organic substances in the body such as fluid. Don't quote me on it. I am not sure on the right type of test.
 

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Have you heard about glucosamine? If not, just go to any drug store and pick some up. It promotes good joint health and many bodybuilders use it because all the strains from constant lifting will take its toll on joints.
 
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When I lifted weights over the summer I got the clicking joints thing. When I started baseball season my elbow joint began to click. But when I stopped lifting weights and throwing for few weeks it went away. So I think it's just pressure and acid that built up that's causing it.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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It could be a tendon problem too.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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