"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Click here if you live in ontario and have used adultfriendfinder (with success)

Ryan

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hey there my good sosuave brethren

ok so have you used adultfriendfinder? and been successful with it?

please let me know

I've plateaued and hit rock bottom...havent gotten laid since winter......(im in a different town )

ok please give tips how to lay girls on adultfriendfinder.....

i noticed some guys even post pics of their ****s on there.......thats not really my style

i am a completely different person compared to the free spirited kid I used to be when I first signed up for this forum in 2000, different as in poorer skills in seduction...want to commit to spending the rest of the summer in polishing it up

Thanks mates
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Kal0051

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online dating doesn't work!!! Simple as that. Just find a girl in real life, it's faster and easier.
 

Ryan

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Kal0051 said:
online dating doesn't work!!! Simple as that. Just find a girl in real life, it's faster and easier.

actually my friends sister met a guy online......and they got married a few months ago...


so anyone know any good chat rooms? for the KW area?
 

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Don't rely on the internet to meet women. Maybe after you've laid a chick and got nothing better to do, you can send some messages. Other than casually, don't. You'll find yourself wasting time chatting up and talking sexually to a woman who probably is going to flake on you on the first outing.

Get some confidence, break out of your shell and go talk to women outside. Screw up til' you succeed.
 

Kal0051

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Ryan said:
actually my friends sister met a guy online......and they got married a few months ago...
there's always exceptions to everything
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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bukowski_merit

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as i was just explaining in another thread - social networking pickup works WAY better than dating site pickup... For social networking sites you can kindda go under the radar and be playful without it looking like you're trying to hookup or be a sleeze ball... Dating sites are kindda like you walking up the girls house, ringing the doorbell, and looking to your left and seeing 40 other guys standing there waiting for her to answer as well...

i signed up for adult friend finder about 3 years ago and had 0 success... even old fat hags on there get 50 emails a day from desperate guys... and if you want a sure fire way to feel inside like a desperate guy - spend a weekend on one of these sites emailing tons of women... that'll do it to you...

I did it again last year BUT with a bi-sexual chick i was messing with and we were looking for another woman to join us (she paid for the membership)... We got one, and it was fun... But even then - our profile together got about 20-30 replies a day... mostly from? guys! (who couldn't read or wanted a 3some)

girls are overwhelmed on sites like that... you need to be much better looking online than you have to be in real life talking to the same exact girl!

the amount of time you have to put in in order to get one lay (with some 32 yo HB5) is retarded!
 

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I always suspect sites who promote women just looking for sex first because its not in their best interest to get just sex out of the deal without some security that comes with it. Sex to women is a bargaining tool to get something else and by just giving it away it defeats that purpose.

I wouldn't be surprised if a place like adultfriendfinders is composed mostly of escort services, women with STD's, avg/ugly looking women who arent getting enough d1ck, married women who cheats, mentally disturbed or single women with kids that finance their lives by having more kids.
 
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