"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Clever way for getting number...

Intrakit98

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What would be a clever way to get a female cashiers info/number at a fast food place? I know a way I just want to hear some other ideas. If there are any.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Darth_Qurashi

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haha try this, i saw it on fast times at ridgemont high.

"How about a meatball sandwich, a medium coke, and you phone number :)".

or something along the lines of, if thers a problem, are u liable, can i get ur number,

or this is a good one, ask her questions about working there, wats it like, and that ur interested in applying, and if u can get her number as a reference or something like that, i dono, i just came up with it rite now
 

Intrakit98

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Thanx Darth.

I think I'll try the thing with getting her number for a reference. That might work.
 
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