"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Clearing the air: the PUA vs the DJ

Falcon

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Okay, I think really the whole point of this post was to point out two different mindsets. Some people don't see the two different mindsets, while it seems like some people do. To me, I see it as clear as day. Some advice leans toward one and some lean the other way. If you want to read on one side of the extreme, read a lot of Pook. A lot of the seduction gurus fall on the other side. I definitely don't want to force any mindset upon someone else, it's their choice, let's not argue about that. I can care less what someone labels themselves. It's more important to be able to differentiate between the mindsets and to be able to choose what you want. That's why I like this forum. There is plenty of discussion on things other than women too.

Let's not argue if it's wrong or if its bad. Let's just know the difference so we can have and choose more options.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Trapper said:
so whats the ultimate objective? Pussssyy right.....
:nono: Not necessarily, thus the controversy.
 
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