"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Clearing the air: the PUA vs the DJ

Falcon

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Okay, I think really the whole point of this post was to point out two different mindsets. Some people don't see the two different mindsets, while it seems like some people do. To me, I see it as clear as day. Some advice leans toward one and some lean the other way. If you want to read on one side of the extreme, read a lot of Pook. A lot of the seduction gurus fall on the other side. I definitely don't want to force any mindset upon someone else, it's their choice, let's not argue about that. I can care less what someone labels themselves. It's more important to be able to differentiate between the mindsets and to be able to choose what you want. That's why I like this forum. There is plenty of discussion on things other than women too.

Let's not argue if it's wrong or if its bad. Let's just know the difference so we can have and choose more options.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Trapper said:
so whats the ultimate objective? Pussssyy right.....
:nono: Not necessarily, thus the controversy.
 
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