"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I've lurked for a while. I've made a few posts. I've implimented some of the stuff in the bible.


I took the plunge in DJ hood this week. Went on a date with a HB7 and for the first time in my life, I was more focused on what I thought of her instead of trying to get her to like me. What I found was that I wasn't all that interested.

Large confidance boost. Awakening to the prospect that it is not hard, but fun, to flirt. I'm gearing up to be a happier person.


Till I looked at my MSN, Yahoo and Myspace friend lists. Chocked full of female friends that were used to my constant advice and presence. I was attracted to most of them but never got anywhere.

So I started to cut a swath of destruction through them. DELETED. DELETED. DELETED. No warning. I just did it.

Now, I'm facing the fallout. I'm getting emails like "what is going on?" "I'm hurt that you did this" and "Are you ok?"


I need some strength boys. I want to go running back, appologizing and fold back into the warmth of familer, if frustrating, "relationships" with these women. Am I doing the right thing?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm assuming that you aren't close to any of these females.

So if they are just attention *****s, don't waste time on them...
 
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One or to I was close two, which makes this hard.

I'm attracted to them and my thinking used to be "well, if I can't have a relationship, I'll settle for the emotions that come from a friendship."


The rest can go fvck themselves.
 
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You should have thought to your self: do I wan't to be friends with this person or more. if the answer is more you should delete them if, if the answer is "just friends" you should have left them (only if you can handle being only friends with them)
 
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Well, I just went and deleted the whole damm profile. This site talks about getting out more and not sitting infront of the computer. I agree. MySpace is a soul sucking site from the Devil. I'm free!!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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PeeGee

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I think what you did was a bit extreme -- you *can* be friends with females without letting them use you as an emotional tampon. By deleting them all (and without warning) you're just causing random and senseless drama.

Oh well, it's done. I suggest you make new accounts and etc. And try not to add male friends who know the purged females.
 
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