"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Cleaning the forums up... no more crap!

Hot Ice

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OK, Listen up gentlemen!
I've had enough with some newbies with no respect come asking those dumb questions all over again.
I bet I'm not alone here.

This may sound quite radical..
But my suggestion is that mods should close those threads where guys are asking those questions where you can find answer directly from The DJ Bible.
For example:
"I met this girl at a club yesterday. Can I call her tomorrow because I'm horny and I wanna get laid so bad???"
Now if this guy would read The Bible, he would know the answer.

Even worse is that when some other newbies reply:
"Oh, you can call her anytime you like, because you are the man."

The AFC - DJ ratio here is too big. And nobody is saying the classical "Read The Bible!" anymore because there is too much of these dumb questions.

I'm just saying that if one doesn't do something about this, there will be to little amount of guys who actually know what being a DJ is.
This is a road to Hell!
At least to the newbies nowadays...
I bet it's really hard to them to get the right information, not just some crap.

After all, I'm just thinking about their best.
And I'm also trying to wake that thinking up again that there is something noble about Don Juanism. It's not some damn 'becoming a pimp' -cult!!!
Oh, well. It's forgotten already... :(
...Road to AFC Hell.


So what do you guys think?
- Hot Ice
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Eternal

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I think the forum would be dead without the dumb newbie questions. The mods COULD go around closing every newbie post, but then there would only be Demons posts left. *Shudders* Plus...Remember when you were a newbie? I bet you asked the same questions.

*Edit* Decided to go with your advice. Closed a newbie thread and replied to it with the correct advice. Any new threads like that will be closed with the link to the bible.
 
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