"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Where to find classy girls ?? No sluts, but girls that dress business casual but sexy... heels, skirts, nice tops probably have money...

What type of clubs or lounges would you find this type of crowd ?? I'm in NYC, so if you can be more specific it'd be better

anyone with alot of experience with this upscale type of girl either reply or hit me with a PM... Tks



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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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And College... And Libraries...
Rich Neighborhoods as well... <- Seriously Think About that...
 
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I'm in a pretty rich neighborhood right now, the women are older and married, haha go figure eh ?

Hmmm, anything else ?


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go to nordstroms or saks fifth avenue. try places where they would normall hang out.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You don't find classy women in night clubs or bars.

You can find classy women at grocery stores,malls,schools,gyms(almost always on treadmills),basically anywhere you would be when you aren't looking for trouble.
 
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the most expensive part of downtown or shopping district is where most of the classy girls are- well,rich anyways.They are all the same no less though,don't let it fool you..it's all a facade anyways...lil rich girls..
 
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Cod3r said:
I'm in a pretty rich neighborhood right now, the women are older and married, haha go figure eh ?

Hmmm, anything else ?


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Here in Nashville there is a whole county that's nothing but rich people...
My guy friends and I go there any chance we get!

I'm going to try to make this logical...

Young males in rich neighborhoods usually don't have that much "game"... They are more dorky/nerdy... So you'll have a bigger percent of single females. Chances are these girls come from classy families and they will be classey as well...

But I would think generally in every city there is a retail area that serves the rich...
 
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They are all the same no less though,don't let it fool you..it's all a facade anyways
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You're not telling me anything I don't know, this whole city is a facade...

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go to nordstroms or saks fifth avenue. try places where they would normall hang out.
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Not really wanted 'rich' girls too much, but I guess classy and rich come in the same package. eh


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