Classroom openers?

[battle_sheep]

How can I open up chicks in a classroom?

I know theres that "i need help with this problem" opener, but I want something more unique, that would lead to more conversation not just her helping me and my saying thanks and just leaving.

Another problem is that we cant really just get up and walk around, the girls sit away from me and my desk, so how would that work out? Theres also one chick, who is one of the best looking in the entire school, she gets hit on alot, and she KNOWS shes sexy, and she can have whoever she pleases, so how do I separate myself from other guys right from the start?

How can I make her see me different right from the opener?

TY

 

[jeffthechef]

honestly, i don't think it's necessary to pull some fancy **** out at school....i would use that magic for outside events..even then, simplicity is better...there was an article about the ultimate opener/closer and everyone replied to the thread stating how successful it was...and it was

"How's it going/How are you doing?"

before coming to this site, i would try to imagine the most clever **** possible...i had some serious scenes playing out in my head,...but you know what happened?...NONE of them came to fruition because there was never that moment...she would never be where i wanted and i woudl wait and wait...

but now, in the halls or classroom...i find it easier to just ask what she did this past weekend...or tell her something i noticed or did..and then ask a question off of that...hasn't failed me yet

but of course, it depends on how comfortable you are meeting new people


and you mentioned this is the best girl in the school and she knows shes the best...well good, you know the facts...you have a sense of reality...now transform your reality...think about all the greatest documents...

declaration of independence/declaration of rights of man and citizen/declaration of rights of women...every declaration....
what do they all have in common...they sought equality.

everyone is created equal...so you should stop viewing her as better...every other guy is trying to play houdini and pull magic out of their asses...they're entertainers not alphas...your job is to **** her hard, eventually...not to entertain her....the only reason why some people are more "important" is because we place that importance on them...so start thinking of her as you would every other girl, thing, or place...think of your bathroom sink as having equal importance with your socks/pencils/girls...once you can view the world as a bunch of elements all created equal...you can live with less attachment to certain objects over others...

so do a simple approach, perhaps she'll find it refreshing.
all you need is
1. smile
2. confidence
3. alpha posture

 

[(JJ)]

well how do you conduct yourself within the classroom?
if you want to demonstrate dominance and alphaness in the class with her, you can't just turn it on and off. you have to be 24/7 the kid that's making jokes, asking questions, talking about relevant (and irrelevant) subjects, answering questions etc. if you demonstrate that you're in control of the entire class, make everyone laugh with some witty comment, then half the battle is won.

then it's just a matter of you saying "hey i like that (crazy accessory or article of clothing) what's the story behind it?" and then using basic social skills coupled with all the teachings here to end up with the two of you being naked together.

everything here gets turned into a much harder process than it actually is. dont get sucked into that. you can do it, it's easy.

 

[TheEnergizer]

you seperate yourself from all the other guys with your dj skillz. remember what youve learned. dont put her on the pedestal, dhv, kino, c/f, etc.

what i would do for chicks in your class but dont sit adjacent to you is to just act like JJ described in class in front of the other kids, the teacher, and her. then approach her out of class if possible however you want. youve already got bonus points because its a warm approach rather than cold even though you havent talked to eachother yet you still know eachother through observation, and you know eachothers names too.

if thats not possible though... just kinda come up with something its different for each setting and person... dont wait for an opportunity just make it happen.

 

[battle_sheep]

Well one thing that is giving me problems, is that in the class, I have no social proof, because I dont know anyone in there (when I get classes I usually have kids I know in there) but this summer school class has nobody that ive ever spoken to. As a result of that im usually quiet and I just do my work, because most of the time, I base my sense of humor off of how people react to it, and what makes them laugh (everyone laughs at something different) and because I dont know anyone in the class, something my group of friends would think is funny, might sound extremely lame with this group of students.

Im thinking about getting to class a little early and striking up a conversation with the chick about how she said she got kicked out of her old school, and teasing her, etc.

Im a naturally happy guy, people notice all the time, and people tell me im funny, etc. Im not sure if some of you guys ever felt this but I usually keep to myself in a class full of people i haven't met yet. And the obvious solution to this is to go make friends with these people, but I wanted to mention this before you guys tell me to get some social proof within the class:

Have you ever noticed someone who doesn't look worth your time? When you see someone you can automatically see that you being friends with them is kind of a waste of time/nothing to get worked up about? Im sure some of you have felt this way about people, its kind of like that in the class. I can tell these guys are really nothing special (that's why the friends I have now are awesome, they stood out because they were funny, chilled out, things like that) and I dont really want to waste my time getting to know them

I may sound stubborn but Im really not, im open to all types of information/help - but the above are just my personal thoughts, I appreciate the advice much guys

 

[Mando]

I was almost in the EXACT same situation you were in, and my main target was also the girl who happened to sit next to me(hottest in school). All I did was DHV and not treat her like anything special, like mentioned above. If you let her think that you're chasing she's just gonna think of you as another one of "those guys". I actually got to witness it, one of the other guys by me(gym buff, jock, all that) started hitting on her, but he didn't show any alpha-traits and was basically kissing up to her, so she just like shook him off and kept going for me. Just don't make the same mistake I did and wait months to make a move, doesnt turn out too well >_<

 

[battle_sheep]

Sup guys?

Yesterday, my friend and I walked into class and noticed our seats have been taken, guess which 2 seats were open?

A good lookin chick ive been eyein for the first couple days, sitting next to her friend. My buddy and I sit down and immediately open them with something I totally forgot Anyhow, fast forward 2 hours and were having an awsome time, ive been making these 2 (and my friend) laugh for the whole class time, they were really enjoying our company for a couple of strangers they met not long ago. I did this by mostly telling funny stories and just being happy. They were definitely happier than they were when we werent around

That was yesterday, today the seat my friend was sitting in was taken so I was the only guy in the group of 3 girls, we were all having a pretty sweet time, with the jokes again (although not as much laughter as yesterday, my friend usually gives me a hook to say something funny, but he wasnt with me today) I got to know these chicks quite well which is pretty awesome. Anyhow, i wanted to point out one thing, although I was being funny, I could tell there was no attraction there :nono: and I was wondering what it takes to form this attraction?

I read up on alot of articles but for some reason, when im actually in the field talking to girls, none of the techniques I learn EVER come out...is there a fix to this? Because for some reason, i didnt tease these girls AT ALL, and something was holding me back, and I think I know what it is. Its the fact that I dont know them yet. I can tease a girl when ive gotten to know how insecure she is, or whether she can take a joke about HERSELF. Another part of this is being afraid to offend the girl and ruin the vibe we had going with my humor, is there a fix for this?

 

[jeffthechef]

hmm...i'm against saying some girls have higher value than others...so let's say this...if you know she can take it (hint hint), then you should tease a little..LITTLE...if she's not the type (cough), then don't bother teasing cause she might cry later that night

as for technique not coming out, it comes from practice...from articles you receive knowledge or "potential power"...but practice perfects technique

How to form attraction?
First, initial attraction is highly physical...And initial attraction, or physical attraction, is 80-90% of the battle...Think about it yourself, when you see a girl that you don't find attractive...chances are you won't consider her as more than a possible friend...same goes with the way she looks at you...you can only build so much attraction, but most in the end, most of it is physical and that's hard to change...just drop your game, which is basically being yourself...perhaps somethign comes from it, maybe somethign doesn't...either way, you have other girls right? so don't focus all your attention on this one