"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Classroom gaming help

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For some reason I find classroom gaming to be a lot harder than anywhere else. I don't know why. Since it should be a lot easier since you have a set meeting every week.

I go to a community college so the classes are much different from a big university. The classes are very small in size & everyone just wants to go and get the hell out of there.. It's weird.

I have a ton of success sarging where I work & when I'm out, but have no experience in a classroom. In High School it was much different, because everyone knew each other and I had social proof, but here no one knows each other.

Anyways, In one class in particular I sit behind a HB9.. I wasn't really going to bother gaming her, because I was having so much success and just wanted to concentrate on the class.. But after thinking about it and asking myself WTF am I doing? I've decided it would be a good time to get classroom game experience for possible targets down the road.

So, the first month or so of the class I didn't really give this girl any IOI's and just really chatted with a guy I've become friends with. We have chatted a little, but I have never really introduced myself and she has never really introduced herself, but we're acquainted with one another I guess you could say.

I sit directly behind her and the person that used to sit next to her dropped the class, so I'm going to sit next to her next class. (Or should I not telegraph the interest?)

The class is split into like 5 groups of people that converse with eachother.. It's me, her, and about 4-5 other people in one group where we all chat & a lot of the time cheat on tests and homework, lol.

I don't really know how to open this girl, because I can already tell that a few of the broads she has become friends with will try c0ck blocking.

I would normally wait until after the class and we're walking out but the dumb teacher takes attendance at the end of class and dismisses us after that. She's one of the first to get dismissed and I'm one of the last.

Anyone who has been in this type of community college atmosphere or has any tips on how to open this girl - I'd appreciate the advice.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I used to go to community college, our math team decimated all other teams in the country, even universities..

We used to have a guy, from Nigeria.. Tall sob! Like 6'5".. Black as a night. So he used to just sit next to the prettiest chick, the one with a boyfriend that sat next to her. He'd sit next to the chick. And he'd make that deliberate!!!!!!!! The chick would run for her life and sit somewhere else, he'd follow and sit right next to her. Playfully... That was their flirting..

Then he'd flirt with her during class.

He was a good student, the best in class, and he'd still flirt with her during class...

There was some resistance from the chick, but the guy was more concerned with his game than anything else. I think he was a natural.

It was a ongoing thing, between this guy, and the prettiest chick in the class.. All throughout semester they'd do this. Everybody loved that guy.
 

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Why don't you be the life and soul of the group, and let her open you? Open her friends, open the guys (not in a gay way), but leave contact with her minimal. She'll wonder why this funny, great guy is talking to everyone else, but leaving her.

Then you pawn the others, using them to get to her.
 

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WesCottII said:
Why don't you be the life and soul of the group, and let her open you? Open her friends, open the guys (not in a gay way), but leave contact with her minimal. She'll wonder why this funny, great guy is talking to everyone else, but leaving her.

Then you pawn the others, using them to get to her.
This is what I have been slowly doing or at least trying.. It takes time though.

I fking choked today, sadly. The class was boring as hell to the point where I was coming in and out of consciousness and really didn't make any progress. Although I did make her laugh a few times. I don't know what the f is going on in that class though.

I was so pissed that I didn't # close this girl I went into the gym and got a # close from a HB8.5. I have no intention on calling this girl or even bothering with her - i just needed a # close to stop me from steaming over not # closing the girl in my class.

The sad part is I have about 5 other much better looking girls who I am in steady contact with and for some reason this girl is intriguing me. The worst part is the week in between classes.

Anyways, I guarantee I will number close this girl next week or go down in flames.
 
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