Locster
Don Juan
What are different ways you can approach girls in class (college)? There are lots of hot chicks in all my classes and im having trouble trying to break the ice. Any advice would be appreciated.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
classroom approaching?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Ace_McGregor
Don Juan
It should be easy if you are in the same class with them. All you have to do is walk up to her when you are both leaving class and ask her something about the class. Or try to sit by her in class and start convo that way.
Maybe you should read Juggler's e-book on starting conversations with women. I think it will help you out.
Maybe you should read Juggler's e-book on starting conversations with women. I think it will help you out.
Locster
Don Juan
Can you give especific examplesAce_McGregor said:It should be easy if you are in the same class with them. All you have to do is walk up to her when you are both leaving class and ask her something about the class. Or try to sit by her in class and start convo that way.
Maybe you should read Juggler's e-book on starting conversations with women. I think it will help you out.
Ace_McGregor
Don Juan
Go read juggler's e-book:
http://www.charismaarts.com/
As for specific examples, you need to figure those out for yourself, otherwise it will not sound natural.
http://www.charismaarts.com/
As for specific examples, you need to figure those out for yourself, otherwise it will not sound natural.
CopperGoat
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My god you are trying way toooo hard for this ****. Just go out there and talk to them, that's it, you'll get better every time. Don't worry about all these stupid sites, wasting your time reading articles, and reading about how some other male cloddish brute found better ways to get into some pants. I swear masculinity's stupidity never ceases to amaze me. Just go out there, pick the best girls, talk to them, enjoy your own prescence, be patronizing towards them so they have to work for you, and don't care if they blow you off, or say anything mean. If they do this, just leave it on their side, meaning they're grumpy and having a bitter day, that way it'll make them look bad and you good. Also, girls have a hard time understanding karma as well, it's like their bodies and mental functions completely break down when they experience irony. Also, make sure you're liking a woman not only for her body and looks, but also how fun she is, I know for a fact, that most of our motives are done strictly out of vanity, and sexual lust.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I consider myself pretty damn experienced at the college classroom approach, and what I've learned is this: what you say really doesn't matter UNLESS you're approaching a group of girls sitting together in adjacent seats, which I wouldn't recommend, because in this situation everything you say must be damn funny or interesting just to elicit a smile from them, especially if they are hot girls you're going after.
Go after singles, smile and put a little bit of humor into it, and the girl will let you know from the beginning whether or not she is into you.
Personally I almost always ask a question about the class, then add a humorous comment to her answer. Good luck man. Hope this helps.
Go after singles, smile and put a little bit of humor into it, and the girl will let you know from the beginning whether or not she is into you.
Personally I almost always ask a question about the class, then add a humorous comment to her answer. Good luck man. Hope this helps.
It's all about practice, man. The more conversations you have with women you have, the more relaxed you'll be. Despite what Mystery or any other Seduction "Guru" will have you believe, there are NO "magic 5 words" that will get you into her pants. The more practice with this stuff you get, the better you'll be.
Locster
Don Juan
i will start practicing this monday
i need to start with canned material though since im not experienced
can anybody give me some examples of things i could ask or say?
i need to start with canned material though since im not experienced
can anybody give me some examples of things i could ask or say?
Ace_McGregor
Don Juan
Canned lines are not going to help you. It would like using a "band-aid" instead of addressing the real problem. The fact that you are asking a question like this tells me you need to also work on your inner-game if you want to have successful approaches. That is why I suggested juggler's e-book - However, if you don't want to spend any money, search for some of his old posts.
Meeting girls in a classroom setting is 10X easier than meeting a random girl on the street. This is because you have common ground from being in the same class. That gives you thousands of possible things you can say to a girl. "Have you studied for the test?", "What other classes are you taking?", etc.
What you say doesn't matter that much. It is the context of what you say that matters. That is why you need to work on your inner game instead of memorizing a canned opener.
Try this link, and good luck!
http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum6/HTML/000429.html
Meeting girls in a classroom setting is 10X easier than meeting a random girl on the street. This is because you have common ground from being in the same class. That gives you thousands of possible things you can say to a girl. "Have you studied for the test?", "What other classes are you taking?", etc.
What you say doesn't matter that much. It is the context of what you say that matters. That is why you need to work on your inner game instead of memorizing a canned opener.
Try this link, and good luck!
http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum6/HTML/000429.html