“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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City or small town girls?

Nasman

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Ok my fellow don juans I have a question? Is game better in big city or small town.

I live in chicago and it seems girls are a little on stuck up side.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Nasman said:
I live in chicago and it seems girls are a little on stuck up side.
Haha you should come to California.
 

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well, chicks are harder in the city. Women here in the bay area think there stuck up goddesses.
 

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Move to a blue state or city. Honestly, in canada, it's much easier to get laid out in BC a left wing province than it is to get laid in the prairies or ontario.

Move to a democrat state or city.
 

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blinkwatt said:
Haha you should come to California.

lol! yeah man. where in Cali bro?

I just came from a small town in Washington, way easier up there seriously. Probably cuz theres a smaller selection of guys! haha!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Sacramento/Rocklin area is where I specialize/live.
Another valley kid huh? cool. Fresno boy right here :rockon: .
 

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If you practiced approaching in the city and then when to a small town it would be super easy. It's like peacocking light in a small town would be considered heavy peacocking, because people aren't used to that. If you've ever peacocked and been to a small town you will notice how many people look at you. Before when I didn't know about that I had been down in VA and got some many girls looking at me that I assumed if I lived down here I would get all the girls. But I now realize it was because I dressed different and no one has really seen that type of style before so I stood out.
 

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Your margin for error is actually a lot higher in the city. If you blow it, I mean big time, you start the slate clean next weekend. Or just around the corner at the next bar.

In a small town, EVERY move is recorded, monitored, and remembered. For example, a girl in a shoe store. I had chit chatted with her, just to practice socializing, get myself known. We talk about some clubs, and she says she doesn't go to "certain" clubs with a "certain" reputation. Guess what? I see her a couple weeks later at that "certain" club with a "certain" reputation. I thought this was kinda strange, so I avoided speaking to her at this club. We both saw each other, but didn't speak.

I see her again at the store, and she is cold as ice. I mean, really to the point of being rude. Snide little insults, a lot of attitude. The sweet girl was gone. The ice b1tch appears.

You don't run into these problems in a big city.

But who cares really? Just make the best of what you have now.

Wolf

Nasman said:
Ok my fellow don juans I have a question? Is game better in big city or small town. I live in chicago and it seems girls are a little on stuck up side.
 

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Gaming can be a lot less personal in big cities because you're a just a pubic hair on the coattails of a huge ugly gorilla (understand the point)...

I've noticed that uptown chicks are definitely more busy, especially in the metropolitan areas, so as far as game goes, you need to appeal and take more inventory on your looks and presentation department.

But then again, if you're talking about the small town chicks, just make sure you look as fit and uckfable as possible, because they have nothing else to do.

Capiche?
 

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Cruise, that's true! I live in a small town where there is not much to do. Seriously, some chicks I have heard them say that, "Well, there is nothing else to do around here but have sex."
 

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blinkwatt said:
Haha you should come to California.
yeah bro, u have to look like brad pitt or me to get chicks in hollywood
 
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