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City girls vs suburban/ country girls

Djjead12

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Something I’ve noticed recently

I started the online dating thing a couple years ago.. something I’ve noticed is my “game” works really well with girls that didn’t grow up in the city but I struggle to pull girls that grew up in or very near the city (within 5-10 miles of downtown let’s say for argument)

I grew up in the suburbs myself. Def notice a difference in attitudes between city girls and outer city girls. City girls seem a little more stuck up and concerned with money .. outer city girls are more down to earth.

my sample size is pretty large here. I’ve dated prob 75+ girls id imagine

guys that have success with city girls .. what’s your formula for success

I know it sounds crazy but there’s def a difference between city girls and the rest. I’d imagine it has someThing to do with their dad or family having a lot of money. I’m not poor by any means but I’m not a $200k+ earner either. I sense a lot of these girls grew up the rich girl and now want a dude with a lot of money .. attorneys, doctors etc
 
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Something I’ve noticed recently

I started the online dating thing a couple years ago.. something I’ve noticed is my “game” works really well with girls that didn’t grow up in the city but I struggle to pull girls that grew up in or very near the city (within 5-10 miles of downtown let’s say for argument)

I grew up in the suburbs myself. Def notice a difference in attitudes between city girls and outer city girls. City girls seem a little more stuck up and concerned with money .. outer city girls are more down to earth.

my sample size is pretty large here. I’ve dated prob 75+ girls id imagine

guys that have success with city girls .. what’s your formula for success

I know it sounds crazy but there’s def a difference between city girls and the rest. I’d imagine it has someThing to do with their dad or family having a lot of money. I’m not poor by any means but I’m not a $200k+ earner either. I sense a lot of these girls grew up the rich girl and now want a dude with a lot of money .. attorneys, doctors etc
I can tell you if you aren't from the city nor have the money to show off, it won't be worth it. However I'll give my 2 cents.

If you don't have the money, you have to atleast act like you do. Which means dressing really well and also at least have a vehicle that isn't weak like a little Civic or Corolla. Think high tier Accord or Camry at the absolute very least. Also can't be more than 3-5 years old. Easiest thing to do here is to lease one. After that, get familiar with the hot spots of the city, restaurant and bars. Because once you start dating someone, they'll expect you to take them there instead of Chilis or some other chain type of place. The hardest part is your living situation. Only way to have a place that a high end city girl would like and in a great location is if you rent and possibly would need a roommate.
 

Djjead12

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I can tell you if you aren't from the city nor have the money to show off, it won't be worth it. However I'll give my 2 cents.

If you don't have the money, you have to atleast act like you do. Which means dressing really well and also at least have a vehicle that isn't weak like a little Civic or Corolla. Think high tier Accord or Camry at the absolute very least. Also can't be more than 3-5 years old. Easiest thing to do here is to lease one. After that, get familiar with the hot spots of the city, restaurant and bars. Because once you start dating someone, they'll expect you to take them there instead of Chilis or some other chain type of place. The hardest part is your living situation. Only way to have a place that a high end city girl would like and in a great location is if you rent and possibly would need a roommate.
Ya I mean I have a nicer car and house it’s just not in the city. But thanks for confirming the money thing. It’s for sure a real issue with the better looking city girls. and it’s not that I don’t have some but I’m not flashy with it by any means and most of that has to do with my upbringing
 
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