"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I know that the majority of men are cimcumsized, but I wasn't, so I wanna know how women feel about that. Anyone else out have any experience with that? Thanks.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I haven't met any resistance from women on that matter. I put a condom on anyways.
 

SmoothTalker

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Actually the vast majority (something like 80%) of men in the world are NOT circumcised.

I'm guessing you mean in North America, where that is the case but its slowly changing..

Anyway, personally I've never had any girls complain. Truth is if you're hard when they see you, many can't even tell the difference. Lol one of my girlfriends didn't realize I wasn't circumcised for about 3 months after we started doing stuff, even though we often did it in full lighting and I wasn't the first guy she'd seen.

Honestly, keep it clean and you most likely will not experience any problems. If you do, she's probably a stuck up ***** anyway - tell her to cut her labia off because it's just useless skin too.:crazy:
 

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I don't think women have a problem with either the German Helmet or the Anteater. As long as the sex is good it doesn't matter. IMHO
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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BMX

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Too much information, haha.
 

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Shake it-Break it said:
I know that the majority of men are cimcumsized, but I wasn't, so I wanna know how women feel about that. Anyone else out have any experience with that? Thanks.
Sex is better if you are uncut they say. More sensitive. Most chaps who have had the chop after they have had sex complain about it affecting their sex life.
 

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Most chaps who have it done after complain about the recovery too, I suspect when it was done has a lot to do with both. I personally know a lot of women who refuse to blow a guy with an uncut willy.

That's all the motive I need to go buy my dad a beer for making the right choice.
 

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Go uncut because I think the doctor took half mine off.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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armadon said:
Go uncut because I think the doctor took half mine off.
Shake it-Break it probably already knew this.
Shake it-Break it said:
I know that the majority of men are cimcumsized, ....

I don't want to venture a guess on how he found out either... :nervous:
 

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Like another poster stated, if you're unclean or she's a closed-minded beeyoch then those are the only two problems.


Most women don't care. They like c0ck bald or hooded.
 

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Chicks I've been with usually dont notice unless I bring it up. Of course, l dont have a "turtleneck" either, so it's not in the way, or nasty.
 

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as a woman and a mother, i prefer circumsized as i have been brainwashed by society to believe that it is cleaner.....
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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penkitten

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i mean, people may say something is better and seems cleaner if you are circumsized, but it isn't really so. you can still keep yourself clean without having a surgery.
so i think society brainwashes us into feeling that way.
 

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Man, you should have seen a doctor a long time ago.. They can probably start of with just a small snip to loosen you up a bit, but if that fails you can always chop the whole thing off. Good luck.:nervous:
 

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if you go a long time without pulling the skin back all the way, you may not be able to clean it so well, which is the reason people fear infection.
even circumsized guys have to pull it back a little to clean right?
perhaps people are not teaching their children the proper way for hygiene ?
 

SmoothTalker

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Well while it's still attached you're not suppoesd to rip it off to clean under it, just clean what you can.. But yes, parents are supposed to teach you this. Maybe that's why uncut is so unpopular in the States, parents don't teach people what to do and then of course you're going to have problems..

Anyway it's not a sign you'll never get laid. Just go to the doc and get it checked out. Odds are you'll be fine.
 
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brett012, Don't worry about it. Just make the effort to pull it back everyday. Up until I was 13 or 14 I couldn't pull it back, but once I started making the effort, it's fine. Don't give up. Try everyday and you'll be good.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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