"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Circuit Training

The Damned

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Im thinking of taking this up after the New Year as a hobby and I hear its a great way of staying fit.
Im trying to change my Fitness Routine a bit as Im getting bored doing the same old stuff, Im wondering if this is a great way of muscle building as well as improving cardio.
What are the exercises like? What sort of stuff do you do and how physically demanding is it?
Im thinking of doing it once a week, makes a change from just running and lifting weights.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MrS

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Circuit training is a very broad term.
It means you do things one after the other, in a circuit.
These can be from bodyweight to kettlebell to barbell to bands to anything.

Example circuit.
10 pushups
20 situps
20 supermans
10 squats
Repeat 5 times, rest 60 seconds after each set. Not exercise, those are one after the other.

That's one of a million possible circuits.
Another could be.
10 burpees
100m sprint
10 clap pushups
100m sprint backwards
Repeat.

Another.
20 squats
20 squat jumps
20 jumping jacks
10 burpees
20 pushups
20 clap pushups
20 staggered pushups

Going from upper to lower. Numbers are as many as you can, really, in continuous form. The one above is a bit too much on the numbers, but anyway.

Another circuit.
150 lbs barbell.
Deadlift
Shrug
Hang clean
Front squat
Push Press
Push Jerk
Back squat
Behind the neck press

Repeat.
Incorporate more strength exercises for strength, higher numbers for endurance, more sprinting for stamina and fat loss, that sort of thing.
 

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I'm doing circuit training, it could be as simple as two dumb bell exercises super setted, one after the other.. It's done at cardio pace, so you loose fat as you exercise..
 

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What is cardio pace?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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