"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Boner da Stoner

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At first I was wondering about the gals that have way too much ingrained bigotry about sex in their heads. Than I started to think about the guys who go to church that are powerful enough to give these girls these ideas.

What is a good game plan to game these girls? I know theres the real naughty ones, but being so far north I rarely get a first shot at em, but when they are really snotty whats a man to do?

The reason I ask is I continuosly meet chicks at the bar who won't drink, they are super uptight about the C&F, but they are soooo innocent. Innocence turns me on in a girl, and deep down so do you;)

Does anybody have advice on breaking their barriers? I don't want to offend them, and offended they get very easily.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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For many, their FAITH will always TRUMP your advances, no matter how thinly vailed , or however overt. Kudos to those types of people who know what they want and choose to live the lives they choose.

Know your limitations.
 

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Originally posted by wowiehowie
For many, their FAITH will always TRUMP your advances, no matter how thinly vailed , or however overt. Kudos to those types of people who know what they want and choose to live the lives they choose.

Know your limitations.
Well said!^^^^^^^
 

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Boner, are you really in Nunavut?

Yeah, little chance at getting most religious girls to give it up. Good luck though.
 

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Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
Does anybody have advice on breaking their barriers? I don't want to offend them, and offended they get very easily.
For the most part, I've found that these are girls that are looking for a LTR and even if you get a chick in one, she's gonna wanna wait a long, long, long time to do much.

So if that's you're goal. Go for it.

If it ain't, well, go for the innocent on the outside ones. They're more fun :D .
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
Innocence turns me on in a girl, and deep down so do you;)

We turn you on? That's a little creepy!!
 

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Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
At first I was wondering about the gals that have way too much ingrained bigotry about sex in their heads. Than I started to think about the guys who go to church that are powerful enough to give these girls these ideas.

What is a good game plan to game these girls? I know theres the real naughty ones, but being so far north I rarely get a first shot at em, but when they are really snotty whats a man to do?

The reason I ask is I continuosly meet chicks at the bar who won't drink, they are super uptight about the C&F, but they are soooo innocent. Innocence turns me on in a girl, and deep down so do you;)

Does anybody have advice on breaking their barriers? I don't want to offend them, and offended they get very easily.

My advice is to next. There are so many women out there it isn't funny. Why do you sit around trying to figure girls like this out. Just leave them be. Let them have what they want. There are many guys out there that don't want sluts for LTRs.

I think that women like this need to be respected. They are not tainted by modern feminism or stupid americanized values.


If all you want is to fu-ck girls don't waste your time on them. Just move on. there are far to many sluts out there to be worried about one girl who isn't a hoe.

On other thing.

A man shows respect to a women that is not a f-cuking slut.
 

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Indeed... wespect the girls.

If you're looking for sex, don't try get it from the 'innocent ones'.

Don't break and destroy those girl's values. You're a DJ - destroying their values and morals (no matter what they are) should not be something you do.

Jus' leave 'em. You have no idea how bad some girls end up after they've been tricked into sleeping with a dude - when they promised themselves they'd remain virgins till they're married. :-(

Sorry if I misread, and you weren't looking for a lay - but a relationship or companionship.
 

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Non-denominational churches -- the kind with the rock band and the 25-year old "pastors" -- are one of my favorite hunting grounds. There are always girls there who play the "good little Christian" role just to hide their inner porn star from their friends whom they think won't approve. Good chance their friends are doing the same thing to them, BTW.

I've dated a few of these. The sex has consistently been phenomenal. One particular instance stands out in my mind: not 20 minutes after giving me world-class head, we met up with her friends from church at a Starbuck's. She wouldn't so much as hold my hand in front of them. That's when it really clicked for me, that this had to remain her little secret.

Happy hunting. . ..
 

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Celibate girls are not difficult as a matter of fact they are easier on you.

You just have to understand that you have to pretend you JUST WANT TO BE Their friend. Stay mysterious. Figure out whats motivating your mark. Which aspects of the DJ should you use? Like invoking her jealousy a little bit? Getting other women to show you overt love in front of her. Flirting with other girls in front of her but then coming back down to earth and caring about her more than them. And of course never forcing her to give you love but appreciating what you get.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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