“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Boner da Stoner

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At first I was wondering about the gals that have way too much ingrained bigotry about sex in their heads. Than I started to think about the guys who go to church that are powerful enough to give these girls these ideas.

What is a good game plan to game these girls? I know theres the real naughty ones, but being so far north I rarely get a first shot at em, but when they are really snotty whats a man to do?

The reason I ask is I continuosly meet chicks at the bar who won't drink, they are super uptight about the C&F, but they are soooo innocent. Innocence turns me on in a girl, and deep down so do you;)

Does anybody have advice on breaking their barriers? I don't want to offend them, and offended they get very easily.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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For many, their FAITH will always TRUMP your advances, no matter how thinly vailed , or however overt. Kudos to those types of people who know what they want and choose to live the lives they choose.

Know your limitations.
 

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Originally posted by wowiehowie
For many, their FAITH will always TRUMP your advances, no matter how thinly vailed , or however overt. Kudos to those types of people who know what they want and choose to live the lives they choose.

Know your limitations.
Well said!^^^^^^^
 

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Boner, are you really in Nunavut?

Yeah, little chance at getting most religious girls to give it up. Good luck though.
 

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Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
Does anybody have advice on breaking their barriers? I don't want to offend them, and offended they get very easily.
For the most part, I've found that these are girls that are looking for a LTR and even if you get a chick in one, she's gonna wanna wait a long, long, long time to do much.

So if that's you're goal. Go for it.

If it ain't, well, go for the innocent on the outside ones. They're more fun :D .
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
Innocence turns me on in a girl, and deep down so do you;)

We turn you on? That's a little creepy!!
 

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Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
At first I was wondering about the gals that have way too much ingrained bigotry about sex in their heads. Than I started to think about the guys who go to church that are powerful enough to give these girls these ideas.

What is a good game plan to game these girls? I know theres the real naughty ones, but being so far north I rarely get a first shot at em, but when they are really snotty whats a man to do?

The reason I ask is I continuosly meet chicks at the bar who won't drink, they are super uptight about the C&F, but they are soooo innocent. Innocence turns me on in a girl, and deep down so do you;)

Does anybody have advice on breaking their barriers? I don't want to offend them, and offended they get very easily.

My advice is to next. There are so many women out there it isn't funny. Why do you sit around trying to figure girls like this out. Just leave them be. Let them have what they want. There are many guys out there that don't want sluts for LTRs.

I think that women like this need to be respected. They are not tainted by modern feminism or stupid americanized values.


If all you want is to fu-ck girls don't waste your time on them. Just move on. there are far to many sluts out there to be worried about one girl who isn't a hoe.

On other thing.

A man shows respect to a women that is not a f-cuking slut.
 

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Indeed... wespect the girls.

If you're looking for sex, don't try get it from the 'innocent ones'.

Don't break and destroy those girl's values. You're a DJ - destroying their values and morals (no matter what they are) should not be something you do.

Jus' leave 'em. You have no idea how bad some girls end up after they've been tricked into sleeping with a dude - when they promised themselves they'd remain virgins till they're married. :-(

Sorry if I misread, and you weren't looking for a lay - but a relationship or companionship.
 

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Non-denominational churches -- the kind with the rock band and the 25-year old "pastors" -- are one of my favorite hunting grounds. There are always girls there who play the "good little Christian" role just to hide their inner porn star from their friends whom they think won't approve. Good chance their friends are doing the same thing to them, BTW.

I've dated a few of these. The sex has consistently been phenomenal. One particular instance stands out in my mind: not 20 minutes after giving me world-class head, we met up with her friends from church at a Starbuck's. She wouldn't so much as hold my hand in front of them. That's when it really clicked for me, that this had to remain her little secret.

Happy hunting. . ..
 

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Celibate girls are not difficult as a matter of fact they are easier on you.

You just have to understand that you have to pretend you JUST WANT TO BE Their friend. Stay mysterious. Figure out whats motivating your mark. Which aspects of the DJ should you use? Like invoking her jealousy a little bit? Getting other women to show you overt love in front of her. Flirting with other girls in front of her but then coming back down to earth and caring about her more than them. And of course never forcing her to give you love but appreciating what you get.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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