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church a good place to meet hot girls?

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I've been told that church is a good place to meet hot girls. That the ratio in those youth groups is like 3-to-1. That sure beats the club... at the club its like 3-to-1 guys-to-girls ratio.

Think about it... what kind of women do you get at the club? Drunk and Easy, ready for the pickins... thats why its so popular even though there's a 3 to 1 guy to girl ratio. If you go to church what kind of people do you see there... strong morals, hard to get. Can anyone here agree or disagree?
 

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And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

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try being sexual (sinfull), while god, her family, and the prist are watching.....

I've been to church couple of time, and yes, i've seen a handfull hot girls....amongst their family, and **** load of old people.

Aproching them, whith sin in mind, while they are with their family pushing through a crowd trying to get out, is not exacly ideal.


I think it's just a myth.
 
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Depends,if you can read people the way i do you'll spot the girls who have been "dragged" to church by their parents.

These should be your targets,just approach,chit-chat and try to get her outta there (running from her parents seems even more adventurous),or she can persuade them she'll be "right outside" or something.This only works on teen girls though 16-18ish.

I don't think girls in their twenties go to the church to be picked up.(even though there may be some sexually deprived wackos there)
 
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spider_007 said:
try being sexual (sinfull), while god, her family, and the prist are watching.....

I've been to church couple of time, and yes, i've seen a handfull hot girls....amongst their family, and **** load of old people.

Aproching them, whith sin in mind, while they are with their family pushing through a crowd trying to get out, is not exacly ideal.


I think it's just a myth.
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The old people at the churches will definitely try to muck it up for you. Never mind the fact that they played when they were young. Hypocrites. :rolleyes: But forget about the strong moral standards. Most churches have lost their moral compasses a long time ago, about all they're interested in now is money, business contacts and bragging. And yes, to see who to hook up with. Lots of hotties go to church in miniskirts nowadays. When it gets down to it people really have trouble suppressing their innate sexual urges, you know. But it's best to come across as a good guy instead of a jerk, that should score some points.
 

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xomel said:
I've been told that church is a good place to meet hot girls. That the ratio in those youth groups is like 3-to-1. That sure beats the club... at the club its like 3-to-1 guys-to-girls ratio.

Think about it... what kind of women do you get at the club? Drunk and Easy, ready for the pickins... thats why its so popular even though there's a 3 to 1 guy to girl ratio. If you go to church what kind of people do you see there... strong morals, hard to get. Can anyone here agree or disagree?
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It is horrible.

1) Most of the women I know from some churches are extremely rude and shallow.

"What the f**k makes you think I'd go out with you?" "There's no way I'd ever be in the same room as you." are just some of my favorite lines from "respected christian women." ::laugh:: Now I had not once been nasty to these women, and I hadn't been rude to any of them. But they, like any non christian woman, found it pretty easy to act, in my opinion, in a very unchristian way. I've prayed for them, and they're still ugly ugly people on the inside.

2) Strong morals? I dunno. I see a lot of women sleeping around, and then act like completely different people when they go to church. Then they're back to their old ways the second they leave the church for another 6 days.

One of my friend's wives (a nurse in Detroit) was commenting about how suprised she was at hearing patients talking about going to church, and then later on talking about going out shooting some rival gang member in retaliation for something.

3) Be careful. I would recommend that if you are a person with spirituality, that you find someone similar, whatever that spirituality is. But don't just go for the pickup. The bible does mention about sticking with people who are "equally yoked." Don't "drag" on a good woman, and don't hurt her. Likewise, she shouldn't be doing the same to you.
 
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I was wondering the same thing also. I guess it can be a good idea who knows.
 
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Just because a woman goes to church doesn't mean she's any different from women that don't go to church. There are plenty of church going women who are total closet slvts and beyond the worse of sinners in many other different ways. They put on their holy act while being in church and turn into completely different people when not in church. To generalize things from my expirience they are total hypocrites who feel they are God's gift to men and the world and behave exactly the same way as women who don't go to church. Well so much for church going girls. You'll encounter tons of really hot girls but IMO church isn't the best place to meet them. Not to mention everyone who goes to church is pretty much a c0ck blocker in one way or another.
 
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a slvt who goes to church will be a hypocritical wh0re.

and you could score if you are a young boy who is lax on the "hot"and "girl" parts
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I was in a Christian youth group thing a few years ago when I was like 19/20, and ultimately I went because the girls were insanely hot and I thought, "hey, they're into the Christian stuff, maybe they won't be stuck up and as fvcked up as normal girls..." HOLY **** I WAS WRONG. Christian girls that WANT to go to church are quite often really messed up in the head. They just have issues and have so many hang ups it's impossible to get laid or even make out. Yeah there's gonna be exceptions but for the most part, these girls will make it seem like you're getting somewhere, then all of a sudden drop you for Joe Christ who out-Christian's the hell out of you. Yes I am bitter with these types but man, if you're just looking to have a good time, then avoid the hardcores and go for the semi-interested ones. They'll suck you dry :rockon:
 
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