"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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tristan22

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It never fails, every weekend i end up seeing atleast 3 AFC guys with knock out girlfriends. When i say AFC, i mean the the classic depiction everyone at sosuave has towards these individuals.

I'm beginning to think:

A. Some fools can pull the AFC crap off.

B. If you like you belong in N'Sync you can pull it off.

C. Luck.

D. Timing.

I'm convinced that life is harder on some individuals then it is with others. When i practiced AFC'ism, my love life sucked!

Someone needs to study this $hit and write a book about it!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by tristan22
It never fails, every weekend i end up seeing atleast 3 AFC guys with knock out girlfriends. When i say AFC, i mean the the classic depiction everyone at sosuave has towards these individuals.

I'm beginning to think:

A. Some fools can pull the AFC crap off.

B. If you like you belong in N'Sync you can pull it off.

C. Luck.

D. Timing.

I'm convinced that life is harder on some individuals then it is with others. When i practiced AFC'ism, my love life sucked!

Someone needs to study this $hit and write a book about it!

What you have to understand is, sometimes in the beginning of a relationship, women like AFC's. Let's see how happy these couples are a few years down the line.

Sometimes it takes awhile for a woman to get bored, but EVERY woman will eventually get bored with an AFC.

They may seem like a wonderfully happy couple, but things could be brewing underneath the facade.

Stick with your DJ behavior, and don't be fooled by what you perceive the AFC has.
 

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I AM CONVINCED that there are a good number of people that 'LOOK' AFC, but underneath they have all the attitudinal mechanisms (felt like a big word) that make them attractive to hot women.
 
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