"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Chuck Norris, took 25 years to do full splits

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but he GOT there. :) I never did progress that far for the sideways splits. but in 7 months, I got to where I could do full front and back splits. The front foot is rocked back on the heel, the rear foot is fully flat on the floor, toes to the rear. I can still, at the age of 60, do a good front snap kick at a height that is over my head, with no stretching or warmups. Since nobody's jewels are that high off of the ground, I dont worry about having lost a foot or so of my original kicking height. :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I never met Chuck Norris, but one of the refs I've worked with knows him pretty well; he was a ref for him when Chuck was a fight promoter: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/World_Combat_League

I saw my trainer use the 'snap-kick to nuts' once on a drunk mma fighter at a party. The kid hit the ground with an audible thump; it was like a knockout blow. And it wasn't like he was trying to hurt him, either.
 

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Although I personally don't believe it is necessary to learn how to kick that high, so I never pursued it, it can open up new tools for you to use and I respect people that have a great deal of flexibility through focused training.

If used correctly, high kicking can be very effective. Here's a good example.

Part 1 (approximately 3 minutes) http://youtu.be/tb6BbwKiPHQ

Part 2 (3 minutes) http://youtu.be/S4NcTQWX7Rc
 

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yep, the best mma fighter at the time, ol' Fedor, got knocked out by a head kick, once. Bruce Lee was kicked in the head, too. If you "think" that nobody can kick you in the head, and I mean mid-fight, you aware, etc, you are SO wrong! :) It's risky against a trained man, but EASY to do vs the untrained, and man is it EFFECTIVE. that foot and leg are SO much heavier than a fist and arm, that you will think that you have been hit by a TRUCK. that is, IF the kicker has the balance, flexibility,. speed, etc, required for such a kick. Such kicks can EASILY break your neck, cave-in your temple or your face, and so on.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I was thinking more of ol' "Superfoot" Wallace or the Hapkido guy, Bong Soo Han, who did the stunt work for the old 70's movies about the Indian guy, Billy Jack. Man, that guy could JUMP and kick. Interviewed in Black Belt mag, he said that as a 5 year old boy, he was told to jump into and out of a hole in his instructor's back yard. It started out being knee deep on the kid. He did this 10x a day. By the time that he was 17, the hole depth was over his head and he could STILL jump out! :)
 

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Back in the late 80's in Tae Kwon Do school, everyone would aim for the head. The whole place was obsessed with flexibility. I must of gotten nailed in the head 20 times in 7 years. You should, so it doesn't feel like a shock in a real fight. This of course was a small Korean place with no insurance, no protective equipment and no political correctness. You, now, a REAL martial arts school lol.

But yeah, definitely do flexibility exercises every day. You will thank yourself for it.
 

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I'd normally never consider the head for a kick in a fight, but sometimes, it's just so OBVIOUSLY the thing to do, IF you have the balance, speed, flexibiity, and experience to see and sieze the moment.
 
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