I haven't posted on here in forever but in summary, I'm what many would call a 30 year old loser. I'm in between career "opportunities" at the moment (unemployed), dropped out of college years ago, and have had consistently terrible luck with women from the beginning. I actually used to visit this site eons ago when I was still in high school and have visited on rare occasions since then. I was a virgin until I was 21 and have to say this site helped me to the degree that I became less shy, more assertive, and have been able to get laid with 40 or 50 women since I was de-virginized.
The problem is that I've always been a homebody and have also been one to smoke pot, which obviously limits the number, but also that the majority of the women I f**ked were either ugly, overweight, or both. Only a handful of them would've been considered gf material, which is to say, attractive and actually capable of getting my d*** hard with ease. Admittedly, I met a lot of these women online. In my experience, I occasionally attract a woman who is actually attractive and everything starts out well but invariably it never works out. I'd have to say I'm roughly a 7 on a scale of 1 to 10, somewhat funny and charming at times but I've NEVER had a gf.
I'm 6'3 1/2 and 170 pounds so I'm obviously pretty thin but I do work out. I'm on POF at the moment and have to say I'm really sick of all the hogs and dogs who find my profile magnetic. And it makes me sick that occasionally a cute one will pop up but they either ignore the message I send or we message/talk a handful of times and it just doesn't work out even though I feel like I'm charming and somewhat effective at showing my sexuality. I've never been the most sarcastic or very good at being ****y and funny but I still believe I've gotten to a point where I don't say stupid things to screw it up and I do feel that I'm funny, articulate, and know what they want to hear. The downside seems to me that I have an innocent face and am kind of nice by nature. The times I've been an *******, women usually are anything but turned on. lol Still, it's hard to fathom having such bad luck for so long (others are even amazed).
I realize my habits and my friends haven't helped since they're a lot like me but I just feel the strong desire to change the trend, start my life anew, and bang hotter chicks instead of occasionally getting lucky and settling for whoever will have me the rest of the time. If I had better social proof on Facebook, I'd probably randomly add hot chicks but I only have 60 something friends (I've probably deleted another 50 or 60) so it probably would be creepy to the max. haha I feel like I've never looked better than I do now and I've never been more charming but at the same time, I feel like the time is ticking away on me and I need to have more fun, more sex and maybe a gf. I'm not sure what it is about me that keeps me from having success with women, other than I haven't made good money and you won't see me driving around in my lambo. I can be engaging and alluring to women but it always seems like it just fizzles for different reasons in different situations. It really kills me that I have good qualities and feel attractive but the results just don't match. Does anybody else feel like you're in this boat? And how crazy was that Facebook random add idea? lol I'm almost willing to do anything to get things turned around.
The problem is that I've always been a homebody and have also been one to smoke pot, which obviously limits the number, but also that the majority of the women I f**ked were either ugly, overweight, or both. Only a handful of them would've been considered gf material, which is to say, attractive and actually capable of getting my d*** hard with ease. Admittedly, I met a lot of these women online. In my experience, I occasionally attract a woman who is actually attractive and everything starts out well but invariably it never works out. I'd have to say I'm roughly a 7 on a scale of 1 to 10, somewhat funny and charming at times but I've NEVER had a gf.
I'm 6'3 1/2 and 170 pounds so I'm obviously pretty thin but I do work out. I'm on POF at the moment and have to say I'm really sick of all the hogs and dogs who find my profile magnetic. And it makes me sick that occasionally a cute one will pop up but they either ignore the message I send or we message/talk a handful of times and it just doesn't work out even though I feel like I'm charming and somewhat effective at showing my sexuality. I've never been the most sarcastic or very good at being ****y and funny but I still believe I've gotten to a point where I don't say stupid things to screw it up and I do feel that I'm funny, articulate, and know what they want to hear. The downside seems to me that I have an innocent face and am kind of nice by nature. The times I've been an *******, women usually are anything but turned on. lol Still, it's hard to fathom having such bad luck for so long (others are even amazed).
I realize my habits and my friends haven't helped since they're a lot like me but I just feel the strong desire to change the trend, start my life anew, and bang hotter chicks instead of occasionally getting lucky and settling for whoever will have me the rest of the time. If I had better social proof on Facebook, I'd probably randomly add hot chicks but I only have 60 something friends (I've probably deleted another 50 or 60) so it probably would be creepy to the max. haha I feel like I've never looked better than I do now and I've never been more charming but at the same time, I feel like the time is ticking away on me and I need to have more fun, more sex and maybe a gf. I'm not sure what it is about me that keeps me from having success with women, other than I haven't made good money and you won't see me driving around in my lambo. I can be engaging and alluring to women but it always seems like it just fizzles for different reasons in different situations. It really kills me that I have good qualities and feel attractive but the results just don't match. Does anybody else feel like you're in this boat? And how crazy was that Facebook random add idea? lol I'm almost willing to do anything to get things turned around.
