"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Christmas Presents

davester88

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Hey Fellas,

My game has been pretty steady, but there is this one girl who seems to have everything possible. Every thing on the face of the earth is in her possession pretty well. From clothes to cars she has it all.

What I am wondering is ( she said she was getting me a gift) and I figure I should get her one back. For girls that have everything is getting something "small" in order?

And another question, how do you deal with the awkwardness of someone buying you a present and you not expecting it from them and not having a gift for them...

Ah christmas season is confusing!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NFC

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Yeah, I have the same question.. I've been going out with my gf for a week or so.. my bday was on the 7th and she didn't give me anything, we had only been going out for a couple days, but she atleast told me happy bday etc. I wasn't mad, it was kind of early to be getting gifts. But idk about xmas, I'm assuming she's getting me something, so I want to get her something to. What should I get for a girl I've only been dating for a little bit? Nothing too expensive..
 

biketrials

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I'm in the same boat. I have just started seeing this babe and was wondering if I should even get her something. I may end up getting her something small but nothing more then twenty if that. What do yall think.
 

eminence

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wrap yourself up naked in wrapping paper and lie still in her bed so she thinks you bought her something really big. when she opens it up she will be so surprised she will just want to **** you right there. it works wonders, trust me.
 

DoN_KaTRiN

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Same

im in tha same fvkin boat
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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