"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Christmas Presents

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davester88

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Hey Fellas,

My game has been pretty steady, but there is this one girl who seems to have everything possible. Every thing on the face of the earth is in her possession pretty well. From clothes to cars she has it all.

What I am wondering is ( she said she was getting me a gift) and I figure I should get her one back. For girls that have everything is getting something "small" in order?

And another question, how do you deal with the awkwardness of someone buying you a present and you not expecting it from them and not having a gift for them...

Ah christmas season is confusing!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yeah, I have the same question.. I've been going out with my gf for a week or so.. my bday was on the 7th and she didn't give me anything, we had only been going out for a couple days, but she atleast told me happy bday etc. I wasn't mad, it was kind of early to be getting gifts. But idk about xmas, I'm assuming she's getting me something, so I want to get her something to. What should I get for a girl I've only been dating for a little bit? Nothing too expensive..
 
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biketrials

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I'm in the same boat. I have just started seeing this babe and was wondering if I should even get her something. I may end up getting her something small but nothing more then twenty if that. What do yall think.
 
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wrap yourself up naked in wrapping paper and lie still in her bed so she thinks you bought her something really big. when she opens it up she will be so surprised she will just want to **** you right there. it works wonders, trust me.
 
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DoN_KaTRiN

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Same

im in tha same fvkin boat
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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