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Christmas Gifts for a person you're seeing

vazeh

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so xmas is coming up and i was thinking of getting the girl ive been seeing a gift. heres a brief history of us:

we met off the internet and have seen each otehr 3 times in the last month and we've kissed held hands and such. she wants to date me but not now cause shes busy and has other issues.

since we've been talking online we have some kind of funny gag where i tell her im a stalker (im not), and im gonna take her to a dark alley and comb her hair and brush her teeth. ... yes its stupid and retarded but its one of those silly inside jokes between us so dont ask :)

anyway, as a joke i wanted to get her a comb and toothbrush for xmas. so its not a serious gift but something that SHOULd get a chuckle out of her

good idea? or bad? keep in mind we're not dating and we've only known each other in person for a month now
 

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The Juan and only

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get her one of these:

www.shewee.com

ha ha lol. womens' peeing problems are solved. :crackup:

If you're wondering how I found this, I saw it on the tv ok.

seriously though,

"Just call her on Xmas Day and wish her a Merry Xmas!!"

is good advice.

"she wants to date me but not now cause shes busy and has other issues." - that's a worrying sign if you ask me. I'd say you need to back off slightly and make sure she doesn't see you as "in the bag". Don't chase her, dont act needy and you're golden my friend.

good luck.
 

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there is a good thread in high school section about this right now.
 

spider_007

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Originally posted by vazeh
anyway, as a joke i wanted to get her a comb and toothbrush for xmas. so its not a serious gift but something that SHOULd get a chuckle out of her
:up:
 

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One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I've done the same with the girl I'm seeing and just got a small gift that relates to one of our inside jokes.

I certainly wouldn't suggest a serious gift anyway.
 

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Re: Re: Re: Christmas Gifts for a person you're seeing

Originally posted by KillaPetehog
Don't do this.

This fool's shallow.

But don't go all out either. Just get her something simple. Like a card or something "you" make.
maybe..maybe not.

check the post penkitten mentioned.

A card would be nice, or something from an inside joke as mentioned already.

Another possiblity, as already hinted out is something you could make. I personally am a sculptor and I enjoy working with wood, so I am making my gift to one of my parents out of wood.

You should consider making something, no matter how simple.
 

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Worst case scenario though, just call her.
 
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