"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Christmas Gift Ideas for Girlfrined of One Month

Colinski282

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Christmas is coming up and Ive had a new girlfriend of one month. Any ideas on some simple gifts, ide hate to over do it and drop too much money on her. Whats a Don Juan got to say about this
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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heater528

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3 years ago i was dating a girl for about 2 months at xmas time i got her a 30 buck basket from bath and body works. She bought me a playstation video game, expensive cologne, a fossil watch and a pair of doc marten boots... needless to say i didnt feel to good afterwards. I think its important that you set a limit for the both of you. Make sure you both stick to them.
 

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Originally posted by heater528
3 years ago i was dating a girl for about 2 months at xmas time i got her a 30 buck basket from bath and body works. She bought me a playstation video game, expensive cologne, a fossil watch and a pair of doc marten boots...
Haha Good Job
 

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Think inexpensive if you've only dated her less than 3 months.

Examples:

1. Christmas Card is a MUST
2. Tickets to some place? (Museum, Comedy show, Small concert?)
3. Boat Ride?

Think simple.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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smoke city

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ok -- it's a little crazy that she's your "girlfriend" after only a month. what have you had like 4 dates?

but anyway -- for gift ideas BE ORIGINAL (i.e. no "gift baskets") and keep it light.
one of my favorites: a home-made 'gift certificate' for a full-body massage (given by me of course!), or breakfast in bed, or something like that... once I even offered to give a girl a bubble bath and shave her legs -- she fvcking LOVED it!! (so did i btw).
 

smoke city

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jc seriously try it sometime...if yr into legs it's the hottest sh!t ever.
 

diplomatic_lies

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Get her 4 chickens, 1 pig, and 2 slaves.
 

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Hehe, i have to drop in on this one. What about a girlfriend of two months? Is there like a tempered scale for this?

I was thinking of of getting her either a gift basket from the bath place, victoria's secret gift certificate for $50 or $100 ( I usually don't spend more than $50 on my friends presents) or an inexpensive necklace or pendant from one of those hippie stores.

Any suggestions?
 

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One month girlfriend hey? I know she will have been talking to you about her life up till now nonstop! Have you been listening at all? If you are walking through the local shopping centre (or mall if you like), has she looked at something in a shop window and said "oh I love them" or something else like that? Is there a concert she said she wanted to go to? Some local tourist attraction she has never gotten around to visiting? The hints were all there, you just have to pick them up.

If you really like this girl, you get serious brownie points for giving tangible proof you actually listen to her. The good thing here is it doesn't have to be expensive, it's that you took notice of what she said that will put you in the good books.

Failing that, go and buy her a small rosebush (not a bunch of roses), get yourself a pot and some potting mix. Then you can spend 10 minutes 'planting it together'. Women lap that romantic sh!t up and it would probably be cheaper than some of the boxes of chocolate you might have been looking at.

Cheers
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sux2bu

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Tell her you don't celebrate Christmas. :crackup:
 

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im a Kwanza man myself but if she's interesting enough you'll probably know something about her that others dont, you can get her something in relation to that or like someone else said a scarf, sweater, etc.
 

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THe leg shaving thing would be hot, but man what if they havent been shaved in a while, thats kinda gross.
 
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