This post got a bit lenghty, you can skip the last part with the details, if you don't want to read that much.
I wonder what I should do with girls I just started dating (i.e. one date or so) concerning christmas.
I will give you details concerning the girls in a minute. Most of them won't be in town for the next two weeks, so there's no chance for a date.
BTW, I kissed none of them yet. (Yes I _definitely_ have to work on the kiss close)
I see three options:
a) send a text message on the 24th saying something like "Merry Christmas"
b) call (doesn't seem too good to me)
c) do nothing
What do you think, should I do?
So, here are the details:
girl #1.) - she's the only one in town. I have the second date (playing pool) with her on Tuesday, the 23rd. I estimate her IL as 80%.
I think I'll use option a) or b) on her. But I might also buy her a small gift - she mentioned something like me buying her something, but I'm not sure if she was serious.
#2.) IL maybe 60% or 70%.
Good eye contact and smiles on the first date.
No "real" second date, but we met again at a party, we both knew we'd go there. Lots of kino there.
BTW, she's my favourite right now.
Not in town. option a) or c)
#3.) Seemed to have quite a high IL when I got her number. Agreed quickly to a date, but then cancelled the date by sending a text message. Some days later I called her again to get a date, same thing - agreeing, then cancel.
She has almost been nexted, but I'll give her another chance after the two weeks christmas vacation.
#4.) Got her number on Thursday on a party. She made eye contact with me, so I approached her. The convo didn't go so well, because I was very drunk.
I got the number with the line "Hey, we might talk again, when I'm not completely drunk. So, if you give me your number..."
She replied: "I guess it's better if you'd give me yours."
Me: "OK, do you have pen and paper or a cell phone?"
She: "No."
I then just shrugged my shoulders and said "Well." with a "Don't care"-attitude.
She: "Do you have a cell phone?"
So, she typed her number into my phone.
Medium IL, obviously. I don't know if she's in town, but I don't think so. We didn't talk very long.
I don't know if I should try to get a date before christmas, seems a bit hasty to me. Maybe I'll call her on 27th.
I wonder what I should do with girls I just started dating (i.e. one date or so) concerning christmas.
I will give you details concerning the girls in a minute. Most of them won't be in town for the next two weeks, so there's no chance for a date.
BTW, I kissed none of them yet. (Yes I _definitely_ have to work on the kiss close)
I see three options:
a) send a text message on the 24th saying something like "Merry Christmas"
b) call (doesn't seem too good to me)
c) do nothing
What do you think, should I do?
So, here are the details:
girl #1.) - she's the only one in town. I have the second date (playing pool) with her on Tuesday, the 23rd. I estimate her IL as 80%.
I think I'll use option a) or b) on her. But I might also buy her a small gift - she mentioned something like me buying her something, but I'm not sure if she was serious.
#2.) IL maybe 60% or 70%.
Good eye contact and smiles on the first date.
No "real" second date, but we met again at a party, we both knew we'd go there. Lots of kino there.
BTW, she's my favourite right now.
Not in town. option a) or c)
#3.) Seemed to have quite a high IL when I got her number. Agreed quickly to a date, but then cancelled the date by sending a text message. Some days later I called her again to get a date, same thing - agreeing, then cancel.
She has almost been nexted, but I'll give her another chance after the two weeks christmas vacation.
#4.) Got her number on Thursday on a party. She made eye contact with me, so I approached her. The convo didn't go so well, because I was very drunk.
I got the number with the line "Hey, we might talk again, when I'm not completely drunk. So, if you give me your number..."
She replied: "I guess it's better if you'd give me yours."
Me: "OK, do you have pen and paper or a cell phone?"
She: "No."
I then just shrugged my shoulders and said "Well." with a "Don't care"-attitude.
She: "Do you have a cell phone?"
So, she typed her number into my phone.
Medium IL, obviously. I don't know if she's in town, but I don't think so. We didn't talk very long.
I don't know if I should try to get a date before christmas, seems a bit hasty to me. Maybe I'll call her on 27th.
