Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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christian girl worth the chase?

LoneWolf

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now i been with a christian girl before and she gave me the whole sex after marriage only. i dumped her soon because i couldn't take it no more and i have a high sex drive. everything else was fine apart from that but i did dump her. she then started to beg me to stay with her and that she would give up her sex real soon. i still left her anyway.

now i know this other christian girl who i been seeing but i'm wondering if its worth the trouble? people say judge a girl by action not talk. so i'm thinking i might try my luck with this girl and if she still won't give up the sex after a good while i'll know she's very serious about it. because she's told me she has done various sexual things in past relationships. i'm assuming bjs or whatever. she also swears sometimes so she's not your average christian girl.

any of you guys been with a christian girl who had the sex after marriage belief but got them to give it up? i don't wanna be one of those guys who stays with a girl for two years then they leave me and i got none. happens to many guys lol.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Slick Rick-NZ

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I have heard of them giving it up quite easily, but it probaly depends on the circumstances. I won't give you any advice as the others guys hate on it koz I am new to the forum so.... This christian mind set was set into them from a young age and even though they crave it as much as you they hide those emotions and cancel them out. Even if they have had intercourse in the past they will not tell any one and act as if it never happened. They need to feel like it is okay and worth it. I have only heard of these types putting out but have never gone out with a christian chick myself.
Good luck hopfully the other guys can help keep us posted..
 

YoungQuas

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Well I haven't done that before, but my cousin has gone through something similar. His ex-girlfriend was a very religious girl and wouldn't give it up. He respected that and they never did it. They eventually broke up. She got a new boyfriend and she apparently slept with him in about month. I guess it depends on how good you are, but why not try for a short time and then leave if it isn't going as you planned?
 

49au

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The best road head I ever got was from a pastor's daughter, while driving her to a revival service her dad was preaching at.

Dated her 8 years ago. I took her virginity and she fvcked my brains out for months. She wanted sex more than I did.

Yet she still genuinely loved her family and church, and felt torn. But sometimes raw sexual attraction (especially when they're that young) can override everything for the time being. The relationship did not ultimately work out, but I had a lot of fun.
 

Kirro

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Even Jesus can be AMOG'd. If a girl wants you, nothing & I repeat NOTHING can stop her from riding your cawk, sometimes not even you.

Please bare in mind that one guy will hear wait not outside of marriage & another will hear nothing but "oh yeah", "oh fvck yeah", "harder" & "OHHHHHHHH [insert stud's name here]".

It all comes down to charm(tone & delivery), being sexual(letting her know what's up just like any other girl), being manly(don't be afraid to push the boundaries & lead) & looking good(as much as SS users hate it, a good body & a well taken care of face will make the job a whole lot easier).

& the most important rule is...know when to eject for christ's sake(no pun intended), it doesn't matter if who or what the chick is, when you get rejected MOVE ON. Waaaaay too many guys here get hung up on this one chick. Save the emotional investment for the women...they're better at it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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