"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Chrisman Cut Journal

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Well, I thought I'd put up a journal. I tend to flake when I get busy with school, so this will hopefully keep me in line.

I've done cuts before, so this isn't anything new to me. Last year I had one of the busiest school years of my life (25ch terms) and ended up missing a year in the gym. I really let myself go, so I'm just trying to get it back.

I actually started doing this at the first of September, but I'm just posting now, because I just got the internet hooked up in my apartment. I'll probably just post my workouts, rather than my diet. I know diet is the most important thing with a cut, but it takes too much time on my part to dissect everything into protein, carbs and fat. Just so everyone is aware, I am eating every 2-3hrs. My protein remains constant through each meal. My carbs and fat change throughout the day.

So here are my measurements,

Sept. 3rd 2005

Height: 181cm
Weight: 234lbs (Really let myself go :( )
BF%: 20% (I don't think this is accurate. But I'm just using it as a measuring point)
Arms: 15''
Chest: 43''
Stomach: 42'' 2/8
Waist: 40''
Thigh: 26'' 2/8
Calve: 16'' 2/8

I'm going to weigh in about once a week.

I also cycled in 10g of creatine a day probably on the 6th or 7th of Sept. I was expecting to increase in weight, but ...

Sept. 10th: 231lbs Down 3lbs

I'm going to weigh in Monday.

Creatine really helps a lot with pushing myself. I've had a lot of good results from creatine in the past. Only negative side effect is soaked in sweat at the gym.

About a year ago I would of been like 210lbs at 14% body fat. Which I was happy with.


Also, I've done a lot of different workout routines. I'm currently trying periodization.

Here's what I did on Friday.

Lower Body 2
Squats(3x10): 10x155, 10x175, 10x175
Deadlifts(4x5): 5x185, 5x185, 5x185, 5x185
Barbell Shrugs(2x20): 20x135, 20x135
Front Squats(2x8): 8x95 8x95
Leg Curls(3x10): 8x100, 10x110, 10x110
Calves(1x Failure): 15x17
Abs(3x10): 10x0, 10x0, 10x0

Isn't a bad day, but the deadlifts completely kill me.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sept 19: Upper Body 1

Incline Bench Press(3x5): 5x165, 5x165, 5x165
Close Grip Bench Press(1x8): 6x135
5 Board Close Grip BP(1x8): 8x155
Dumbell Extensions(2x10): 10x20, 7x20
Seated Military Press(3x5): 5x50, 5x70, 5x70
Dumbell Overhead Press(2x8): 8x40, 8x40
Barbell Rows(3x8): 8x135, 8x155, 8x155
Upright Rows(2x10): 10x7, 10x8
Barbell Curls(2x10): 10x30, 8x30

Didn't really have the best day. I didn't get a chance to get something to eat before hand. Barbell Rows kind of ended me.

Sept 19: 233lbs Up 2lbs

This makes sense. Last week there should of been no reason for me to drop 3lbs since I cycled creatine in. So I guess I didn't absorb the water as fast as I thought I would. I guess I got 5lbs of extra water weight, which is great. :)
 

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Sept 20: Lower Body 1

Squats(5x5): 5x205, 5x205, 5x205, 5x225, 5x225
Cleans(3x5): 5x115, 5x115, 3x135
Hack Squats(2x8): 8x115, 8x135
Straight Leg Deadlifts(2x8): 8x115, 8x135
Calves(3x10): 10x20, 10x20, 10x20
Reverse Hypers(2x10): 10x25, 8x25
Abs(3x10): 10x0, 10x0, 10x0

Pretty good day.
 

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Sept. 22: Upper Body 2

Dumbell Press(3x8): 8x60, 8x65, 8x65
Flat Flys(2x8): 8x20, 8x25
Low Cable Rows(2x8): 8x10, 8x11
Lateral Raises(2x10): 10x15, 10x15
Skull Crushers(2x8): 8x50, 8x50
Barbell Curls(3x5): 5x50, 5x50, 5x50
Push Downs(2x10): 10x10, 10x11
Hammer Curls(2x8): 5x25, 5x25
 
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