"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Chris Angel - Mindfreak

Gaucho

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I've been watching a bit of the guy lately. The way he appears to "tell the future" and predict what people are thinking is dazzling and I have been trying to work out how this is done, but my conclusions always draw a blank.

Can anybody shed some light? It's obviously a trick of some kind, but how it is done beats me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Personally I thing there's some underlying corollary between Chris Angel and Mystery.

Just sayin'...
 

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Francisco d'Anconia your a genius
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Personally I thing there's some underlying corollary between Chris Angel and Mystery.

Just sayin'...

Criss Angel is a real PUA. He makes no claims to his ability to attract women and only claims to be a magician, but he can probably attract more girls than all those other guru phonies combined.
 

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Gaucho said:
I've been watching a bit of the guy lately. The way he appears to "tell the future" and predict what people are thinking is dazzling and I have been trying to work out how this is done, but my conclusions always draw a blank.

Can anybody shed some light? It's obviously a trick of some kind, but how it is done beats me.
If it's on TV, it's a good chance that they're just actors.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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