So anyway im the one woman type of guy, and this post is more about facing my morals.
GIRL A: So far i had a couple dates with this submissive/naiive girl, no ifs and buts from her. Submissive is cool and all and i could dig her even if she wasnt, but the biggest obstacle i see with her is she's emotionally unavailable. And i dont feel appreciated period. She has no care in the world, and to top it off she barely knows anything about me cause she never asks. She has no social life nor interests which is another reason why she doesnt have much to talk about. Im sure if given time her personality would break out and shine - as right now she's generally a quiet girl. My interest in Girl A is moderate.
GIRL B: almost 2 years ago I asked this girl from one of my classes to a date and # closed. I forgot what happened but she gave me some lame excuse, but i did get her #...regardless i nexted her too eagerly back then. And since then my interest in her just disappeared. Since that semester I never have class with her until this semester. However occasionally I would run into her on campus and the stuff she does when she sees me still shows that she's very much into me. In yesterday's class several times i caught her looking at me, especially when i had to take a phone call. I could try asking her out again, but i wonder if there's a point because i long since lost interest. But I know for sure she'll appreciate me moreso than Girl A.
These 2 girls are almost the extreme opposites, girl A is the short/cute/shy type hb7. Girl B is the model type (body and face) about HB8, she's closer to my maturity level and is legal to drink in bars unlike Girl A.
My main concern here are my morals, i could go out with both - waste twice the money on dates, put more stress on myself and wind up losing both if they find out. Or i can just cont dating Girl A, give her time and see if she's willing to open up. In the end I am looking for a LTR, this is an awkward time for me...
GIRL A: So far i had a couple dates with this submissive/naiive girl, no ifs and buts from her. Submissive is cool and all and i could dig her even if she wasnt, but the biggest obstacle i see with her is she's emotionally unavailable. And i dont feel appreciated period. She has no care in the world, and to top it off she barely knows anything about me cause she never asks. She has no social life nor interests which is another reason why she doesnt have much to talk about. Im sure if given time her personality would break out and shine - as right now she's generally a quiet girl. My interest in Girl A is moderate.
GIRL B: almost 2 years ago I asked this girl from one of my classes to a date and # closed. I forgot what happened but she gave me some lame excuse, but i did get her #...regardless i nexted her too eagerly back then. And since then my interest in her just disappeared. Since that semester I never have class with her until this semester. However occasionally I would run into her on campus and the stuff she does when she sees me still shows that she's very much into me. In yesterday's class several times i caught her looking at me, especially when i had to take a phone call. I could try asking her out again, but i wonder if there's a point because i long since lost interest. But I know for sure she'll appreciate me moreso than Girl A.
These 2 girls are almost the extreme opposites, girl A is the short/cute/shy type hb7. Girl B is the model type (body and face) about HB8, she's closer to my maturity level and is legal to drink in bars unlike Girl A.
My main concern here are my morals, i could go out with both - waste twice the money on dates, put more stress on myself and wind up losing both if they find out. Or i can just cont dating Girl A, give her time and see if she's willing to open up. In the end I am looking for a LTR, this is an awkward time for me...