"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Choosing between two women

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I was at a party, with approx. 40 people. There were two girls that clearly showed interest in me. They didn't know each other, but the environment was small enough that you could see almost everything that happened. So... I just approached both of them, and chatted a little. From that point I decided to walk around from group to group, just to socialize a little more and see what happens.

The first girl: pretty face, very direct, just horny.
The second girl: hot damn... she was the hottest one at the party IMHO

So I finally made a decision: I'd go for the second one! But then suddenly I encountered the first girl, so I chatted a little and she said: 'Shall we just start kissing now'? I was like: 'You just made me an offer I can't refuse...' So I kissed with her the rest of the evening, until me and my friends left.

I didn't talk to the second girl anymore. So I was discussing this with a friend today, about how this might work out in a woman's mind:

I expect the second girl has lost all interest in me instantly, when she saw I was taken by the first girl... or could it be that I became even more 'interesting' because it is obvious that more women are interested?

What do you think?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Women, no matter what they look like, are usually never at much of a loss when it comes to getting male attention. Both girls may have been hit on at least once or twice that night by other guys, so regardless of who you approached first, if the other one saw you hit on the other, anything from a little to a LOT of interest may have faltered.

It's literally like "meh okay, he was cute, but move on" if a woman who was previously physically attracted to you at a social gathering with little to no prior knowledge of who you are to see you get off with another chick.

In most cases though, you generally don't want to approach a woman whilst wearing the lipstick / feint aroma of the previous woman you kissed, if you know what I mean. If you kissed a woman within the sight of another, chances are that woman (especially if she's extremely attractive) WILL be hit on by another guy shortly after, so no biggie to her.
 
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