"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Choosing between two women

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I was at a party, with approx. 40 people. There were two girls that clearly showed interest in me. They didn't know each other, but the environment was small enough that you could see almost everything that happened. So... I just approached both of them, and chatted a little. From that point I decided to walk around from group to group, just to socialize a little more and see what happens.

The first girl: pretty face, very direct, just horny.
The second girl: hot damn... she was the hottest one at the party IMHO

So I finally made a decision: I'd go for the second one! But then suddenly I encountered the first girl, so I chatted a little and she said: 'Shall we just start kissing now'? I was like: 'You just made me an offer I can't refuse...' So I kissed with her the rest of the evening, until me and my friends left.

I didn't talk to the second girl anymore. So I was discussing this with a friend today, about how this might work out in a woman's mind:

I expect the second girl has lost all interest in me instantly, when she saw I was taken by the first girl... or could it be that I became even more 'interesting' because it is obvious that more women are interested?

What do you think?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Women, no matter what they look like, are usually never at much of a loss when it comes to getting male attention. Both girls may have been hit on at least once or twice that night by other guys, so regardless of who you approached first, if the other one saw you hit on the other, anything from a little to a LOT of interest may have faltered.

It's literally like "meh okay, he was cute, but move on" if a woman who was previously physically attracted to you at a social gathering with little to no prior knowledge of who you are to see you get off with another chick.

In most cases though, you generally don't want to approach a woman whilst wearing the lipstick / feint aroma of the previous woman you kissed, if you know what I mean. If you kissed a woman within the sight of another, chances are that woman (especially if she's extremely attractive) WILL be hit on by another guy shortly after, so no biggie to her.
 
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